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  • Does Prayer Really Make a Difference?

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    “[God] hears us whenever we ask him; and since we know this is true, we know also that he gives us what we ask from him” (1 John 5:15).

    Do you ever wonder if prayer really works? 

    Maybe you’ve been praying about a breakthrough … and sensed Satan whispering to you, “This is a waste of time. Forget it! Who do you think you are? What do you think you’re doing? God isn’t listening. Don’t waste your time.”

    You’re not alone. Every [Christian] has moments of doubt. 

    But here’s the truth: Prayer works because God is in control. The basis of all miracles is God’s sovereignty. He is in control. You can trust his wisdom and his goodness.

    Ephesians 3:20 says, “God ... is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think.”

    Prayer can do whatever God can do. His resources are available to you. Twenty times, the New Testament tells followers of God to “ask.” You may not be able to change a situation, but you can pray—you can ask—and God can change it. The things out of your control are not out of God’s. 

    You may be wondering, “If I can pray and ask God to change things, and if God is really in control of everything, why don’t I get everything I pray for?” Good question. Here are three reasons:

    God is not a genie. You don’t just put in a prayer and get whatever you want. If every prayer were answered, we’d be spoiled brats. Parents don’t give their children everything they ask for. It wouldn’t be healthy for them. Neither would it be good for you if God gave you everything you asked for.

    Sometimes Christians pray in conflict. If two Christians are praying at the Super Bowl for different teams, who’s God going to answer? Obviously, God can’t answer every prayer at the same time.

    But I think the real reason is this: 

    God knows what’s best, and you don’t. If you think you know what’s best, that is very presumptuous. The Bible tells us, “We are sure that [God] hears us if we ask him for anything that is according to his will” (1 John 5:14). Look again at the phrase “according to his will.”

    The attitude of your prayer needs to be this: “Lord, this is my prayer request, but your will be done.” That’s what Jesus prayed in Luke 22:42: “Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done.”

    Pray for God’s will to be done in your life today—and then trust that he’ll answer you with his power, sovereignty, wisdom, and goodness.—Rick Warren1

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    Do my prayers really make a difference?⁠⁠

    ⁠⁠Intercession (a fancy word for praying for others) is powerful.⁠⁠ ⁠⁠So powerful, in fact, that I think the enemy tries to get us to not use the power of prayer in our daily lives by convincing us that our prayers aren’t really making a difference.⁠⁠ ⁠⁠When we can’t see the power of our prayers, it can be tempting to believe this lie.⁠⁠ ⁠⁠But your prayers make a difference! So don’t stop praying!⁠⁠

    Your prayers have power because of what Jesus accomplished for you on the cross⁠⁠. In James 5:16 we read, “The prayer of a godly person is powerful. Things happen because of it.” In other translations, it will say the prayer of a “righteous” person is powerful. As a believer, your belief and commitment to following Jesus is what makes you a righteous person. This can give you confidence that your prayers have a big impact. Your prayers are powerful because Jesus died and rose again, so those prayers have the power of Jesus’ resurrection behind them.

    Prayer requires perseverance and is a tool for spiritual warfare⁠⁠. “At all times, pray by the power of the Spirit. Pray all kinds of prayers. Be watchful, so that you can pray. Always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people” (Ephesians 6:18).

    In this letter to the church, we read that “prayer is essential.” Not only is it a key tool to be used in the spiritual battle we are still in, but it’s also shown in this instruction that we are meant to pray for others. We’re told to pray continually, to pray for others, and to keep our eyes open, or to stay attentive to what is going on in the world. Our prayer life should be a direct response to what we see and sense happening around us, and it requires persistence and attention.

    Your prayers witness to others and demonstrate the power of God to those who might not know Him yet⁠⁠. “King Jeroboam spoke to the man of God. He said, ‘Pray to the Lord your God for me. Pray that my hand will be as good as new again.’ So the man of God prayed to the Lord for the king. And the king’s hand became as good as new. It was just as healthy as it had been before” (1 Kings 13:6).

    I love how this passage includes the dialogue where we hear the king say pray to your God. He didn’t believe in this God, but the king was willing to ask to experience healing and the power of this God. … I think our prayers should be ones that create an impact for the kingdom of God when they’re answered. Prayer gives us the opportunity to witness to others. Praying for people who don’t yet know God gives God the opportunity to reveal Himself to them and demonstrate His power. Your prayers make such a big difference that living a lifestyle of prayer could cause someone else to meet God for the first time.

    Praying corporately moves heaven and brings spiritual solutions to physical problems⁠⁠. “So Peter was kept in prison. But the church prayed hard to God for him. It was the night before Herod was going to bring him to trial. Peter was sleeping between two soldiers. Two chains held him there. Lookouts stood guard at the entrance. Suddenly an angel of the Lord appeared. A light shone in the prison cell. The angel struck Peter on his side. Peter woke up. ‘Quick!’ the angel said. ‘Get up!’ The chains fell off Peter’s wrists” (Acts 12:5–7).

    Prayer moves heaven. When the church prayed together for Peter while he was in prison, heaven moved. An angel came down to Peter and drastically changed the circumstance he was in. When you pray, you are inviting spiritual solutions to come and change the circumstances of physical and natural problems in the world. … What are you praying for in your community or in the world today?—Molly Wilcox2

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    Some years ago, a young girl was very sick and not expected to recover. Because of her love for Jesus, she was troubled that she had not been able to do more for Him in her short life. Her pastor suggested that she make a list of people in their little town who needed Christ and pray that they might put their faith in Him. She took his advice, made a list, and prayed often for each person.

    Some time later God began to stir a revival in the village. The girl heard of the people who were coming to Christ and prayed even more. As she heard reports, she checked off the names of those who had been led to the Lord.

    After the girl died, a prayer list with the names of 56 people was found under her pillow. All had put their faith in Christ—the last one on the night before her death.

    Such is the power of definite, specific, fervent prayer. Do you have a prayer list?—Henry G. Bosch3

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    In one region of Africa, the first converts to Christianity were very diligent about praying. In fact, the believers each had their own special place outside the village where they went to pray in solitude. The villagers reached these “prayer rooms” by using their own private footpaths through the brush. When grass began to grow over one of these trails, it was evident that the person to whom it belonged was not praying very much.

    Because these new Christians were concerned for each other’s spiritual welfare, a unique custom sprang up. Whenever anyone noticed an overgrown “prayer path,” he or she would go to the person and lovingly warn, “Friend, there’s grass on your path!”—Henry G. Bosch

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    When we bring our focused and fervent prayers before God, we know that He has gone to work on our behalf and it has caused or will yet cause change and progress. The fruits and results of the prayers that we have prayed in the past and the prayers that we will pray will become apparent in the months and years to come. We can know that our prayers will yield results.

    Our prayers can accomplish things that we are incapable of, things that only the Almighty God, the Creator of the universe, the great I Am, has the power to accomplish, according to His will. Let’s not ever take the power of prayer for granted. When we fail to appreciate it, we fail to use it; and then we fail to see the results that we seek and need. The only time prayer fails is when we fail to pray. Let’s not let that happen. Let’s value and use our treasure of His promises of the power of effective and fervent prayer.—Peter Amsterdam

    Published on Anchor October 2025. Read by Debra Lee. Music by Michael Dooley.


    1 Rick Warren, “Your Prayers Have an Impact,” PastorRick.com, November 7, 2020, https://pastorrick.com/your-prayers-have-an-impact-2

    2 Molly Wilcox, “Do my prayers really make a difference?” MrsMollyWilcox, https://www.mrsmollywilcox.com/post/do-my-prayers-really-make-a-difference

    3 Henry G. Bosch, “Our Daily Bread, March–May, 1996, p. for April 3,” in Galaxie Software, 10,000 Sermon Illustrations (Biblical Studies Press, 2002), https://www.logos.com/grow/sermon-illustrations-on-prayer

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  • The Life of Discipleship, Part 5: Seeking First His Kingdom

    The kingdom of God was a central theme of Jesus’ teachings throughout the Gospels, and is found in key passages, such as the Lord’s Prayer (Matthew 6:9–13), the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5–7), and the Last Supper (Matthew 26:20–29, Luke 22:14–23). The Sermon on the Mount, one of the best known of Jesus’ teachings, talks about the reality of the kingdom of God and provides important principles on how to live as Christians within God’s kingdom.

    Throughout the Gospels, Jesus teaches that the kingdom of God is both a present reality and a future one. On some occasions, He said that the kingdom had arrived (Mark 1:14–15, Luke 17:20–21), and at other times He spoke of it as yet to come at the end of the age/world (Matthew 25:31–34). The Bible teaches that the completion of the kingdom occurs when Jesus returns to set up His kingdom on Earth. “The kingdom of the world has become the kingdom of our Lord and of his Christ, and he shall reign forever and ever” (Revelation 11:15).

    So what is the kingdom of God? In general terms, the kingdom of God is referred to in the Bible as God’s eternal and sovereign rule over the entire universe. “The LORD has established his throne in heaven, and his kingdom rules over all” (Psalm 103:19). The Lord is the Sovereign of the universe, and the kingdom of God is His reign. “He who is the blessed and only Sovereign, the King of kings and Lord of lords, … to him be honor and eternal dominion” (1 Timothy 6:15–16).

    The kingdom of God also refers to God’s present rule in the hearts and lives of all who believe in Him and surrender their lives to Him, thereby receiving His gift of salvation. “Even when we were dead in our trespasses, [God] made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved—and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus” (Ephesians 2:4–6).

    For those who put their trust in God and enter into a relationship with Him through the sacrifice of His Son, Jesus, the kingdom of God becomes a present reality. Living within the kingdom in the present means that we allow God to rule and reign in our lives, acknowledging and honoring Him as the one who created us. It means seeking to live in a way that honors and gives glory to Him, by doing our best to live according to His words in Scripture.

    In the Gospel of John, we read that being born again is required for us to enter the kingdom of God (John 3:3). It is through accepting Jesus as Lord and Savior, believing in His resurrection, and making a commitment to enter into relationship with God that one becomes a part of His kingdom.

    In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus teaches His followers to “seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness” (Matthew 6:31–34). In the verses leading up to this one, Jesus discussed the temporal, material things of this world and what place they should hold in our lives in comparison to God and the eternal things of the kingdom of heaven: “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven. … For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (Matthew 6:19–21).

    When we are born again into God’s kingdom, the center of our lives completely shifts. Jesus calls us to seek first God’s kingdom, trusting that everything else will follow in accordance with God’s will. When God reigns in our lives, we place our faith and trust in Him and we seek to align our will with His, as Jesus taught His disciples to pray: “Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven” (Matthew 6:10).

    Each of us has been granted free will from God, and thus we have in a sense been given a “realm” in which we can make freewill choices. This is part of being made in the image of God. When we enter the reign of God, the call is for us to integrate our “kingdom”—what we have reign over—with His kingdom. We are to seek to align our will with God’s and let His will, as expressed in the Bible, guide our lives, including our inner thoughts and outward actions. As one author expressed it,

    Practically speaking, what does it mean to “seek first the Kingdom”? It means that you look to God and His Kingdom first for everything you need, including your purpose in life, your daily provision, your creative inspiration, your business ideas, your family relationships, everything. As you keep God and your relationship with Him in the center of your life, “all these things will be added unto you.”1

    Living in God’s kingdom means living day by day as one who has a personal, interactive relationship with Him—a relationship which encompasses our earthly life and then continues throughout eternity. Seeking first the kingdom of God means rearranging our priorities so that God has first place in our lives—above our own desires and will, our possessions, our loved ones, and even our own lives, as the following excerpts highlight.

    The Kingdom of God Within Us

    From the time of His baptism to the time of His ascension, Jesus spoke of one thing—the good news of the Kingdom (see Matthew 4:23). That, He tells us, is what He was sent to do (see Luke 4:43). And He sent out His disciples to do the same (see Luke 9:1–2). The phrase “Kingdom of God” or its equivalent is used 101 times in the New Testament. The prayer that Jesus taught His disciples to pray begins and ends with it. The Beatitudes begin and end with it (compare Matthew 5:3 with 5:10). The ministry of Jesus itself begins and ends with the Kingdom of God (compare Matthew 4:17 with Acts 1:3)….

    The Kingdom of God is comprehensive [for Christ-followers]. It governs our thoughts and our actions. It governs how we work and how we play. It governs what we say and how we say it. It governs our marriage and our family. It governs our friendships and our finances. It governs how we forgive and how often, which is freely and always (Matthew 18:21–22; Colossians 3:13)....

    When Jesus said that the Kingdom of God is within you (Luke 17:21), He was saying that it is embedded in our soul as deeply as our DNA is embedded in our body. We were made for it, and it, for us. When we live in harmony with its principles, wonderful things happen. Heaven comes down. Edens spring up, and everywhere wildernesses are transformed into oases, especially the wilderness of the human heart.—Leif Hetland2

    God First

    Putting God first means we give Him top priority over everything else. He is the principal figure in our lives and central to all we do and think. When we choose to put God first, we determine that He is more important than any other person, His Word is more valuable than any other message, and His will is weightier than any other imperative.

    Putting God first means that we keep the greatest commandment: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind” (Matthew 22:37). In other words, we are totally invested in our relationship with God. Everything we have and everything we are is devoted to Him. We hold nothing back…

    Jesus taught us to “seek the Kingdom of God above all else” (Matthew 6:33 NLT). That is, we are to seek the things of God over the things of the world. We are to seek the salvation that is inherent in the kingdom of God, considering that of greater value than all the world’s riches combined (Matthew 13:44–46). The promise associated with the command is that, if we are putting God first, “he will give you everything you need.”—Got Questions3

    The Non-Anxiety Principle

    When teaching His followers about prioritizing the kingdom of God in the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus addresses two important principles: to not be anxious about our lives or our needs, and to trust that as we seek first the kingdom, God will care for us. Let’s look at this passage:

    Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? …

    Therefore do not be anxious, saying, “What shall we eat?” or “What shall we drink?” or “What shall we wear?” For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself (Matthew 6:25–34).

    Jesus teaches us, as His disciples, to not be anxious or troubled or worried about the things of this life, but rather to trust in God’s care, His knowledge of our needs, and His ability to supply. As God’s children, we can have peace of heart and mind, knowing that God is sovereign and He is greater than all our troubles and concerns, and He has our best interests at heart. We can exchange the fret and worry that is so commonplace in the world around us with trust in God and His promises in the Bible, and the sure knowledge of His love and care for us. God is faithful, and we can trust that what He promises He will perform.

    While Jesus teaches us to not worry or be anxious about our food, our clothes, or our future, that doesn’t mean that we don’t have to work or carry out our daily responsibilities or do what is needed to make provision for our daily needs. Rather, He is saying we aren’t to be anxious or fearful about it. When His disciples asked Jesus to teach them how to pray, He taught them to pray: “Give us this day our daily bread” (Matthew 6:11). In other words, we are to pray for our daily needs.

    God knows what we need, and as our heavenly Father, He has promised to take care of our needs. Jesus wants us to have peace in our hearts, to trust Him, to know that He can calm the troubled waters of our worries and He will care for us. Jesus still says to us today:

    Let not your hearts be troubled. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid (John 14:1, 27).

    God doesn’t want us to be anxious, worried, or stressed, but to trust that as we place Him first in our hearts and lives, and seek to do His will, He will care for us. He will give us peace of heart, mind, and spirit, as Paul expressed so well in Philippians:

    Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:6–7 NIV).

    Our Compassionate Father

    God is a caring, loving, compassionate Father. The Bible says in Psalm 103:13, “As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him” (NIV). He cares about everything in your life—compassionately.

    The disciples experienced God’s compassion. Most of the disciples were professional fishermen. One day when they were out fishing with Jesus, Jesus got tired, laid down in one end of the boat, and went to sleep. But then a storm came up—and it must have been a big one because the disciples got scared.

    The ship was rocking and rolling, and water was coming into the boat. The disciples were frantic and woke Jesus to ask him one of the most important questions in life: “Teacher, don’t you care?” (Mark 4:38 NIV).

    You and I ask that question of God all the time in a thousand ways: “God, did you see that doctor’s report? Don’t you care? Do you see what a mess my marriage is in? Don’t you care? Do you see how little money we have in the bank and all the bills we’ve got? Don’t you care? Do you see how my kids are struggling in school? Don’t you care? You know this fear that grips my mind that I can’t seem to get rid of. Don’t you care?”

    The answer is yes, God cares. In fact, he cares more than you care. He wants to help more than you want help. He knows what will help you more than you know what will help you. He is aware, and he cares.

    The Bible assures us, “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you” (1 Peter 5:7 NIV). … Take time today to cast your anxiety on God—and trust that he’ll receive it with care and compassion.—Rick Warren4

    Jesus wants us to have peace in our hearts, rather than anxiety or fear, and to trust Him, knowing that He can calm the troubled waters of our worries. God doesn’t want us to be anxious, worried, or overwhelmed, but to trust that as we give Him the right priority in our lives and seek to do His will, He will care for us and supply our needs. He will give us peace of heart, mind, and spirit.

    As Christians, we have the privilege of living life within the framework of God’s love and care for us. We can rejoice that our names are written in heaven, that we are in communion and fellowship with our heavenly Father. No matter what hardships we may face in life, He is always with us. We are a redeemed and blessed people who will dwell with God in His kingdom forever.

    Thoughts to Ponder

    Jesus tells us to “Seek first the kingdom of God” (Matthew 6:33). This is His invitation to us. Set your hearts on your [heavenly] home. In His plan it’s all about the King and his kingdom. He wrote the script, built the sets, directs the actors, and knows the final act—an everlasting kingdom. “And this is [God’s] plan: At the right time he will bring everything together under the authority of Christ—everything in heaven and on earth” (Ephesians 1:10 NLT).—Max Lucado

    Let us submit our worries unto the Lord, for the day has enough trouble as it is. Let us run to the Lord with our emotions, let us seek after His reign and rule in our lives, and let us trust that He will give us everything we need to glorify Him—for His perfect plan and will.—Stephanie Englehart

    To seek the kingship of God first in every affair and every moment of life is a thrilling way to live. It’s full of freedom and peace and joy and adventure—and hardship, and it’s worth it all. If you believe in the kingship of your heavenly Father, you do not need to be anxious about anything.—John Piper

    What the Bible Says

    “We look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal” (2 Corinthians 4:18).

    “For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking but of righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit” (Romans 14:17).

    “When anxiety was great within me, your consolation brought me joy” (Psalm 94:19 NIV).

    Prayer

    Dear heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of gratitude. … Help us, Lord, to seek Your kingdom first in all that we do. May our priorities be aligned with Your will, and may we trust in Your provision. Fill us with a hunger and thirst for righteousness, knowing that in seeking You, we find true fulfillment. We lay our worries and concerns at Your feet, confident that You are our loving Father who cares for us. Grant us the wisdom to make choices that honor You, and help us to be a light in this world. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.5


    1 Matt Tommey, “How Do We Seek the Kingdom of God While Being Here on Earth?” Crosswalk, June 8, 2021, https://www.crosswalk.com/faith/bible-study/how-do-we-seek-the-kingdom-of-god-while-being-here-on-earth.html.

    2 Leif Hetland, Seeing Through Heaven's Eyes: A World View that Will Transform Your Life (Destiny Image Publishers, 2011).

    3 “What does putting God first really mean?” GotQuestions.org, January 4, 2024, https://www.gotquestions.org/putting-God-first.html.

    4 Rick Warren, “God Is Aware, and He Cares,” Daily Hope, https://www.pastorrick.com/current-teaching/devotional/god-is-aware-and-he-cares-4-2025.

    5 “Seeking God First—Discovering True Fulfillment in Matthew 6:33,” Women of Faith, https://www.womenoffaith.com/blog/seeking-god-first-discovering-true-fulfillment-in-matthew-6-33.

     

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