• Lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the world.

  • The future is as bright as God’s promises.

  • Even a single candle can make a difference in the darkness.

  • Put your hand in the hand of God.

  • Our mission. Reaching the world.

Anchor

User-friendly devotionals with audio

  • Follow God, Not Your Heart

    A compilation

    Audio length: 11:41
    Download Audio (10.7MB)

    “Follow your heart” is a creed embraced by billions of people. It’s a statement of faith and one of the great pop cultural myths of the Western world, a gospel proclaimed in many of our stories, movies, and songs.

    Essentially, it’s a belief that your heart is a compass inside of you that will direct you to your own true north if you just have the courage to follow it. It says that your heart is a true guide that will lead you to true happiness if you just have the courage to listen to it. The creed says that you are lost and your heart will save you.

    This creed can sound so simple and beautiful and liberating. For lost people it’s a tempting gospel to believe. But think about it for a moment. What does your heart tell you?

    Please don’t answer. Your heart has likely said things today that you would not wish to repeat. I know mine has. My heart tells me that all of reality ought to serve my desires. My heart likes to think the best of me and worst of others—unless those others happen to think well of me; then they are wonderful people. …

    The “follow your heart” creed certainly isn’t found in the Bible. The Bible actually thinks our hearts have a disease: “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?” (Jeremiah 17:9). Jesus, the Great Physician, lists the grim symptoms of this disease: “Out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander” (Matthew 15:19). …

    Our hearts were never designed to be followed, but to be led. Our hearts were never designed to be gods in whom we believe; they were designed to believe in God.

    If we make our hearts gods and ask them to lead us, they will lead us to narcissistic misery and ultimately damnation. They cannot save us, because what’s wrong with our hearts is the heart of our problem. But if our hearts believe in God, as they are designed to, then God saves us (Hebrews 7:25) and leads our hearts to exceeding joy (Psalm 43:4).

    Therefore, don’t believe in your heart; direct your heart to believe in God. Don’t follow your heart; follow Jesus. Note that Jesus did not say to his disciples, “Let not your hearts be troubled, just believe in your hearts.” He said, “Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me” (John 14:1). …

    Jesus is your shepherd (Psalm 23:1; John 10:11). Listen to his voice in his Word and follow him (John 10:27). He is the truth, he is the way, and he will lead you to life (John 14:6).—Jon Bloom1

    Follow the truth

    Last month, I led a group of sixty high school students on a New Age worldview mission trip to northern Arizona. The students had completed fourteen weeks of training in worldview and apologetics. They were ready, equipped to converse with others about Christianity and truth.

    Part of the trip involved having a shaman, a New Age clairvoyant, and an atheist present their beliefs to the students, with the students asking questions afterwards.

    Both the shaman and the New Age clairvoyant shared a shocking core belief. The human mind is a trickster, they said, and can’t be trusted. Our minds overthink things, which only leads to trouble. Instead, always follow your heart. “If your heart is telling you to do something, do it,” the clairvoyant said. “Don’t even think about it.”

    “Follow your heart” was the instruction we repeatedly heard from our New Age friends, but it’s the complete opposite of what Scripture teaches. … Jesus himself had this to say about the evil of the human heart. “For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed the evil thoughts, fornications, thefts, murders, adulteries, deeds of coveting and wickedness, as well as deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride and foolishness. All these evil things proceed from within and defile the man” (Mark 7:21–23).

    According to Scripture, human beings are broken because of sin, and our evil desires, inclinations, and appetites must be restrained. Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit given to help us master our fallen hearts.

    How can humans gain control over their faulty desires? Not by following their hearts and surrendering to their appetites. Instead, human beings need to have their minds renewed to see reality for what it is. As Paul says: “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect” (Romans 12:2). …

    There is nothing new about the New Age worldview. “Follow your heart” is a lie going back to the serpent’s words to Eve. Her mind knew what God had said, but she chose to follow her heart.

    Here’s my advice: Don’t make the same mistake. Follow the truth, not your heart. Renew your mind according to God’s Word so you may prove what is good, acceptable, and perfect (Romans 12:2).—Robby Lashua2

    A new heart in Christ

    The hearts of sinful humanity are so hardened that we cannot even seek God on our own (Romans 3:11), and that’s why Jesus said no one can come to Him unless the Father first draws him (John 6:44). We desperately need new hearts, for we are unable on our own to soften our hard hearts. …

    When we are born again, God performs a heart transplant, as it were. He gives us a new heart. The power of the Holy Spirit changes our hearts from sin-focused to God-focused. We do not become perfect (1 John 1:8); we still have our sinful flesh and the freedom to choose whether or not to obey it. However, when Jesus died for us on the cross, He broke the power of sin that controls us (Romans 6:10). Receiving Him as our Savior gives us access to God and His power—a power to transform our hearts from sin-hardened to Christ-softened. …

    God’s desire for every human being is that we become like His Son, Jesus (Romans 8:29). We can become like Jesus only when we allow God to rid us of our old, hardened hearts and give us new hearts.—GotQuestions.org3

    All things new

    In Psalm 51 David prayed, “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.” He confessed his shortcomings and his deep need for God; he wanted change, he wanted restoration. But God’s Spirit is the one who transforms us into something new, a creation that’s more like Him.

    The power of God’s ability to make something new, to effect profound change should astound us. Who else has such power? And, what’s more, that He will deign to use this power to work in my heart, to change my life, is a source of hope. A mind-renewing and heart-altering change might seem to be out of my reach, but it is God who works in us through His power and Spirit. We may not perceive or feel the transformation, but we walk by faith, not sight, which is why we can always be of good courage (2 Corinthians 5:6–7).

    It has little or nothing to do with our own efforts. It has everything to do with Him and the new covenant, forged in His blood, that He has offered to us to partake in. “He saved us, not because of the righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He washed away our sins, giving us a new birth and new life through the Holy Spirit. He generously poured out the Spirit upon us through Jesus Christ our Savior. Because of his grace he made us right in his sight and gave us confidence that we will inherit eternal life” (Titus 3:5–7).

    We go to God, seeking forgiveness and reconciliation. He extends forgiveness and soul cleansing. He performs the miracle of wiping the slate clean of our past sins and mistakes (Hebrews 8:12). He gives us a new heart: “And I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you” (Ezekiel 36:26). He lifts us up, transforms us, and re-creates us. He restores our soul and leads us in paths of righteousness (Psalm 23:3). We become partakers of the divine nature (2 Peter 1:4).

    He makes all things new, and He still calls us today to “Come, follow Me” (Luke 18:22).—Avi Rue

    Published on Anchor November 2025. Read by Jerry Paladino. Music by Michael Fogarty.


    1 Jon Bloom, “Don’t Follow Your Heart,” Desiring God, March 9, 2015, https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/dont-follow-your-heart

    2 Robby Lashua, “Follow the Truth, Not Your Heart,” Stand to Reason, August 6, 2024, https://www.str.org/w/follow-the-truth-not-your-heart

    3 “What does the Bible mean when it says that we will receive a new heart?” GotQuestions.org, https://www.gotquestions.org/new-heart.html

  • Nov 10 Steps for Sharing Your Faith
  • Nov 6 Temptations in the Wilderness
  • Nov 4 On Fire for Jesus
  • Oct 30 The Effects of Christianity: The Status of Women
  • Oct 28 Does Prayer Really Make a Difference?
  • Oct 24 Two Ways the Hope of Heaven Battles Your Anxiety
  • Oct 21 The Compassion of Jesus
  • Oct 20 The Word of God: The Foundation of Our Faith
  • Oct 15 Choosing Life
   

Directors’ Corner

Faith-building Bible studies and articles

  • 1 Corinthians: Chapter 14 (verses 26–40)

    In the first section of 1 Corinthians 14, Paul emphasized that the pursuit of spiritual gifts should be for the building up of the church and edification of the believers. He also reminded the believers that worship gatherings should be conducted in a way that these will serve as a witness to non-believers. Paul continues to address these themes in this final section of the chapter.

    What then, brothers? When you come together, each one has a hymn, a lesson, a revelation, a tongue, or an interpretation. Let all things be done for building up (1 Corinthians 14:26).

    For the third time in this chapter, Paul refers to the Corinthians as brothers. In asking “what then,” he is asking them to consider what conclusions should be drawn from the preceding discussion. The answer was that everything should be done in an orderly way for the building up of the believers. As he began to define this, he instructed them to come to worship prepared to exercise their spiritual gifts, whether this was a hymn or a lesson, a revelation, or a message in tongues or an interpretation.

    A lesson (translated as “a word of instruction” in the NIV) probably referred to preaching and teaching. A revelation possibly referred to some specific matter that God had revealed to the believer, perhaps a prophecy. This list appears to be an example of spiritual activities that might take place in a worship service at the time, and Paul made it clear that everyone had the opportunity to participate during worship.

    If any speak in a tongue, let there be only two or at most three, and each in turn, and let someone interpret. But if there is no one to interpret, let each of them keep silent in church and speak to himself and to God (1 Corinthians 14:27–28).

    Paul then gave specific instructions for people speaking in tongues (also known as glossolalia), limiting this to only two or at most three people permitted to do so. They were to do so sequentially not simultaneously, and someone was to be present to interpret the message so that the congregation could benefit from it. If no one was available to interpret the message, then no one should speak in tongues out loud during the service. This follows Paul’s earlier point that uninterpreted tongues do not edify others. Of course, those present could use the gift to pray to God in silence.

    Bible commentator Leon Morris noted:

    Edification is the supreme consideration, so ‘tongues’ must not be used unless there is an interpreter. This shows that we are not to think of ‘tongues’ as the result of an irresistible impulse of the Spirit, driving the man willy-nilly into ecstatic speech. He could keep quiet, and that, Paul says, is what he must do unless there is an interpreter. This also implies that he knows beforehand that he intends to speak—otherwise he would not be checking whether there was an interpreter present.1

    Let two or three prophets speak, and let the others weigh what is said (1 Corinthians 14:29).

    Paul now focused on prophets, referring to believers with the gift of prophecy. Those with this gift received messages or a revelation of some kind to pass on in an intelligible form to those in the church. He likewise limited the number of prophets delivering a message during a service to two or three.

    Paul also stipulated that others were to weigh what was said, which likely involved evaluating the message to judge if the message was truly from God. He wanted to make sure that the church had some checks and balance when it came to people prophesying. The message given by those claiming to be prophets was not to be accepted uncritically but was to be weighed and evaluated.2 This instruction regarding prophecy also appears in Paul’s epistle to the Thessalonians (see 1 Thessalonians 5:20–22).

    If a revelation is made to another sitting there, let the first be silent (1 Corinthians 14:30).

    The first speaker is encouraged to yield to another person who has received a revelation. This promotes a spirit of cooperation and aligns with the biblical principle of considering others above oneself (Philippians 2:3–4). This instruction also helps the church to remain focused on God’s message instead of on an individual’s gifts.

    For you can all prophesy one by one, so that all may learn and all be encouraged, and the spirits of prophets are subject to prophets (1 Corinthians 14:31–32).

    First, Paul instructed speakers to yield to one another, and then in this verse to wait their turn to deliver their message. He was concerned that prophecies would be given in an orderly way so that all could hear and understand them and be encouraged by them.

    In saying that “the spirits of prophets are subject to prophets,” Paul makes the point that the Holy Spirit does not “take over” a person's spirit to where they are unable to control themselves. The opposite is true—one of the nine characteristics of the fruit of the Holy Spirit listed by Paul is self-control (Galatians 5:22–23). Anyone who is legitimately using a spiritual gift can always decide when and how to start or stop expressing that gift.

    For God is not a God of confusion but of peace (1 Corinthians 14:33a).

    Many commentators note that the first sentence of this verse likely should have been part of the preceding verse, once again pointing out that those giving messages during worship gatherings should do so in an orderly fashion. Paul describes this orderliness as peace and reflective of God’s nature. As one author comments, “Paul’s larger point is that this order in the nature of God who acts coherently, faithfully, and without self-contradiction should be reflected in the lifestyle and worship of the people of God.”3

    As in all the churches of the saints, the women should keep silent in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be in submission, as the Law also says. If there is anything they desire to learn, let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church (1 Corinthians 14:33b–35).

    Paul then moved on to address women in the church, saying that women “should remain quiet,” are “not permitted to speak,” and “should be in submission.” This passage has led to much debate and discussion, as elsewhere in this epistle Paul acknowledged their right to pray and prophesy in the church. On this point, theologian Wayne Grudem noted: “In this section Paul cannot be prohibiting all public speech by women in the church, for he clearly allows them to pray and prophesy in church in 1 Corinthians 11:5.” 4

    Some authors propose that this comment was in regard to specific situations occurring in Corinth during worship. In this view, certain women or wives were interrupting the service by asking questions during prophetic speech, which while they may have been legitimate, were being asked in a disruptive or inappropriate way.

    In stating that women should remain silent during public worship, Paul notes that this was the practice of “all churches of the saints.” Paul was making the point that the instruction he was about to impart wasn’t a unique teaching; it was standard in all Christian churches. At that time women were not permitted to speak in the church, which was also the case for those who were living under Jewish law. This reflects the norms of the times whereby husbands were expected to guide their family in spiritual matters. In the Greco-Roman world of Paul’s day, speaking in public was reserved for men. For a woman to speak in a public setting could be considered inappropriate and a challenge to the culture of the time. This view is found in 1 Timothy as well. “Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet” (1 Timothy 2:11–12).

    While this was the practice in Paul’s time, today the majority (though not all) of Protestant denominations ordain women as pastors. (For more on this topic, see 1 Corinthians: Chapter 11, verses 2–16.)

    Or was it from you that the word of God came? Or are you the only ones it has reached? If anyone thinks that he is a prophet, or spiritual, he should acknowledge that the things I am writing to you are a command of the Lord (1 Corinthians 14:36–37).

    Paul proceeds to conclude his discussion of spiritual gifts in united worship. He starts by addressing the Corinthians’ spiritual pride by pointing out that the Word of God didn’t come from them. Rather, it came from God and was delivered through the apostles, first to the Jews in Israel and then to the Gentiles. One author notes, “It appears the Corinthians were trying to make up their own rules, and perhaps thinking their own word is sufficient or authoritative or even the word of God for themselves.”5

    He goes on to instruct those who considered themselves to be prophets or spiritual to acknowledge that his teachings were from the Lord. In doing so he affirmed his apostolic authority and emphasized that what he wrote in his epistles wasn’t just his opinion but rather was a command from the Lord. This parallels what Paul wrote in 1 Thessalonians 2:13: “When you received the word of God, which you heard from us, you accepted it not as the word of men, but as it actually is, the word of God, which is at work in you who believe.” Word of God appears numerous times in the New Testament, in almost every case as a reference to the gospel message about Christ.6 (See, for example, Acts 4:31; 8:14; 11:1; 13:44–48; 2 Corinthians 2:17.) While prophecies given in united worship were to be weighed and tested, the apostolic word as recorded in the Bible is the Word of God.7

    If anyone does not recognize this, he is not recognized (1 Corinthians 14:38).

    Paul stressed that the Corinthians were not to disregard the teachings and instructions that he had given. The church had been experiencing some disorder during their worship. Paul had pointed out the importance of order and building up the believers through intelligible messages, and the consequences of not adhering to it. Anyone who ignored Paul’s teaching and failed to recognize it as the Lord’s command did so at their own peril.8

    So, my brothers, earnestly desire to prophesy, and do not forbid speaking in tongues (1 Corinthians 14:39).

    Referring to the Corinthians as my brothers once again depicts a close and deep relationship among the believers and the unity within the body of Christ. Paul wants the members of the church to prophesy for the edification and encouragement of the church, as he wrote earlier in this chapter: “The one who prophesies speaks to people for their upbuilding and encouragement and consolation” (1 Corinthians 14:3).

    Paul addresses speaking in tongues less emphatically as he commends the believers to “not forbid” speaking in tongues. This is a continuation of his earlier discussion of these two gifts: “The one who prophesies is greater than the one who speaks in tongues, unless someone interprets, so that the church may be built up” (1 Corinthians 14:5).

    But all things should be done decently and in order (1 Corinthians 14:40).

    Paul’s conclusion on his discussion of spiritual gifts calls for the Corinthians to conduct themselves and their worship meetings in an organized, well-planned and orderly manner. Their interactions, especially those which include worship and spiritual gifts, should be conducted with proper behavior and conduct. The gifts of the Spirit are to be exercised for God’s glory, the building up and edification of the believers, as well as to convict non-believers and draw them to worship God and become Christ-followers (1 Corinthians 14:24–25).


    1 Leon Morris, 1 Corinthians: An Introduction and Commentary, vol. 7, Tyndale New Testament Commentaries (InterVarsity Press, 1985), 172.

    2 Morris, 1 Corinthians, 172–173.

    3 Anthony Thiselton, The First Epistle to the Corinthians: A Commentary on the Greek Text, Vol. 1 (Eerdmans, 2000), 1145.

    4 Wayne Grudem, Systematic Theology: An Introduction to Bible Doctrine (Zondervan, 1994), 824.

    5 Ben Witherington, Women in the Earliest Churches (Cambridge University Press, 1988), 98.

    6 Alan F. Johnson, 1 Corinthians, The IVP New Testament Commentary Series (IVP Academic, 2004), 278.

    7 Richard L. Pratt, Holman New Testament Commentary—1 & 2 Corinthians. Vol. 7 (B&H Publishing Group, 2000).

    8 Morris, 1 Corinthians, 175.

     

  • Oct 28 The Life of Discipleship, Part 5: Seeking First His Kingdom
  • Oct 14 1 Corinthians: Chapter 14 (verses 1–25)
  • Sep 30 The Life of Discipleship, Part 4: Relationship with God
  • Sep 16 The Life of Discipleship, Part 3: Abiding in Christ
  • Sep 2 1 Corinthians: Chapter 13 (verses 1–13)
  • Aug 12 The Life of Discipleship, Part 2: Loving God with Our Whole Being
  • Jul 29 1 Corinthians: Chapter 12 (verses 12–30)
  • Jul 15 The Life of Discipleship: An Introduction
  • Jul 1 1 Corinthians: Chapter 12 (verses 1–11)
   

Beliefs

More…
  • The Family International (TFI) is an international online Christian community committed to sharing the message of God’s love with people around the globe. We believe that everyone can have a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ, which affords happiness and peace of mind, as well as the motivation to help others and to share the good news of His love.

Mission

More…
  • The primary goal of the Family International is to improve the quality of life of others by sharing the life-giving message of love, hope, and salvation found in God’s Word. We believe that God's love—applied on a practical level to our daily lives—is the key to resolving many of society's problems, even in the complex and fast-paced world of today. Through imparting the hope and guidance found in the Bible’s teachings, we believe that we can work toward building a better world—changing the world, one heart at a time.

Values

More…
  • Passion for God

    We love God with our hearts, souls, minds, and strength. We seek a close personal relationship with Jesus, and to grow in emulating His attributes and living His love.

About TFI

TFI Online is a community site for members of The Family International. TFI is an international Christian fellowship committed to sharing the message of God’s love with people around the globe.

Visit our main website if you would like to know more about what TFI is all about.

If you are a TFI member, sign in to view more content.

Latest Series

More…
1 and 2 Thessalonians
A study of Paul’s epistles to the Thessalonians and how these teachings apply today.
The Heart of It All: Foundations of Christian Theology
A book compiled from a series of articles covering the basics of Christian doctrine.
Living Christianity
Applying the teachings of the Bible to our daily lives and decisions.