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  • Overcoming Obstacles

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    The issue

    In studying the achievements of famous people, explorers and pioneers throughout history, it becomes evident that most great accomplishments, scientific discoveries, architecture, and works of art took years of planning and laborious engineering before they were brought into reality. And not only that, but it took someone with the vision, perseverance, and determination to surmount the obstacles and persevere with their vision to completion.

    The Bible uses sports analogies, such as running the race, to express the reality that goals aren’t reached and the victory isn’t won by simply walking across the goal line. It takes endurance, tenacity, and perseverance, and a willingness to struggle through obstacles and opposition to reach the goal. That’s just as true of the Christian’s spiritual life as it is of sports, with this one important difference: victory requires dependence on the Lord’s strength rather than our own, and keeping our eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith (Hebrews 12:2).

    Put in contemporary terms, the apostle Paul explained it like this: “So run your race to win. To win the contest you must deny yourselves many things that would keep you from doing your best. An athlete goes to all this trouble just to win a blue ribbon or a silver cup, but we do it for a heavenly reward that never disappears. So I run straight to the goal with purpose in every step. I fight to win. I’m not just shadow-boxing or playing around” (1 Corinthians 9:24–26).

    Running the race with perseverance

    Let me tell you about a little girl who was born into a very poor family in a shack in the backwoods of Tennessee. She was the 20th of 22 children, prematurely born and frail. Her survival was doubtful. When she was four years old, she had double pneumonia and scarlet fever—a deadly combination that left her with a paralyzed and useless left leg. She had to wear an iron leg brace. Yet, she was fortunate in having a mother who encouraged her.

    Well, this mother told her little girl, who was very bright, that despite the brace and leg, she could [achieve great things]. She told her that all she needed to do was to have faith, persistence, courage, and an indomitable spirit.

    So at nine years of age, the little girl removed the leg brace and took the step the doctors told her she would never take normally. In four years, she developed a rhythmic stride, which was a medical wonder. Then this girl got the notion, the incredible notion, that she would like to be the world’s greatest woman runner. Now, what could she mean—be a runner with a leg like that?

    At age 13, she entered a race. She came in last—way, way last. She entered every race in high school, and in every race she came in last. Everyone begged her to quit. However, one day, she came in next to last. And then there came a day when she won a race. From then on, Wilma Rudolph won every race that she entered.

    Wilma went to Tennessee State University, where she met a coach named Ed Temple. Coach Temple saw the indomitable spirit of the girl, that she was a believer and that she had great natural talent. He trained her so well that in 1960 she went to the Olympic Games in Rome.

    There she was pitted against the greatest woman runner of the day, a German girl named Jutta Heine. Nobody had ever beaten Jutta. But in the 100-meter dash, Wilma Rudolph won. She beat Jutta again in the 200 meters. Wilma had just earned two Olympic gold medals.

    Finally came the 400-meter relay. It would be Wilma against Jutta once again. The first two runners on Wilma’s team made perfect hand-offs with the baton. But when the third runner handed the baton to Wilma, she was so excited she dropped it, and Wilma saw Jutta taking off down the track. It was impossible that anybody could catch this fleet and nimble girl. But Wilma did just that! Wilma Rudolph had earned her third Olympic gold medal.

    That day, she made history as she became the first woman ever to win three gold medals in the same Olympic Games. And they’d said she would never walk again.—Brian Cavanaugh1

    Never give up

    You are never a failure until you quit, and it’s always too soon to quit. God uses tough times to test your persistence. The difference between faithful people and unfaithful people is that unfaithful people give up at the first sign of difficulty. Faithful people keep on keeping on.

    Faithful people are determined. Faithful people are diligent. Faithful people are persistent. Faithful people don’t know how to quit. You know how a little acorn becomes an oak tree? An oak tree is just an acorn that refused to give up. …

    If you’re going through tough times right now, then this verse is for you: “That is why we never give up. Though our bodies are dying, our spirits are being renewed every day. For our present troubles are small and won’t last very long. Yet they produce for us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever!” (2 Corinthians 4:16–17).

    God is more interested in what you’re becoming than what’s happening to you. He often allows trials, troubles, tribulations, and problems in your life to teach you diligence, determination, and character. What about the problems you’re going through right now? They’re a test of your faithfulness. Will you continue to serve God even when life stinks?

    “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up” (Galatians 6:9).—Rick Warren2

    A pearl of wisdom

    An oyster on the ocean floor opened wide its shell to let the water pass over it. As the water flushed through, its gills picked out food, sending it to its stomach. Suddenly a large fish nearby stirred up a cloud of sand and silt with a flip of its tail. Sand! Oh, how the oyster disliked sand. It was so rough and made life so unpleasant and uncomfortable and was such a bother whenever any got inside its shell. Quickly the oyster slammed its shell shut, but it was too late. One hard gritty grain of sand had gotten in and lodged itself between his inner flesh and his shell.

    My, how that piece of sand bothered the oyster! But almost immediately, special glands God had given him for coating the inside of his shell began working to coat the irritating grain of sand with a lovely smooth and shiny covering. Year after year the oyster added a few more layers of the coating onto the tiny grain of sand, until at last it had produced a beautiful, lustrous pearl of great value.

    Sometimes the problems we have are a bit like that grain of sand. They bother us and we wonder why we have the irritation and inconvenience they can be. But the grace of God begins to work a wonder with our problems and weaknesses, if we let Him. Like blessings in disguise, God soon takes the rough pieces of sand in our life and turns them into precious pearls of strength and power, and they become a hope and inspiration to many.

    Think about it...

    The little troubles and worries of life may be as stumbling blocks in our way, or we may make them stepping-stones to a nobler character and to Heaven. Troubles are often the tools by which God fashions us for better things.—Henry Ward Beecher

    Be of good cheer. Do not think of today’s failures, but of the success that may come tomorrow. You have set yourselves a difficult task, but you will succeed if you persevere; and you will find a joy in overcoming obstacles. Remember, no effort that we make to attain something beautiful is ever lost.—Helen Keller

    God never said that the journey would be easy, but He did say that the arrival would be worthwhile.—Max Lucado

    What the Bible says...

    Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith.—Hebrews 12:1–2

    If you have raced with men on foot, and they have wearied you, how will you compete with horses? And if in a safe land you are so trusting, what will you do in the thicket of the Jordan?—Jeremiah 12:5

    Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own.—Philippians 3:12

    Published on Anchor February 2025. Read by John Laurence.


    1 https://dailydewinspiration.com/become-what-you-want-to-be/

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  • 1 Corinthians: Chapter 7 (verses 17–40)

    In the previous article, we saw how Paul addressed matters of marriage and sexuality. In the next section of this chapter, he moves on to address the theme of each person leading the life which God calls them to.

    Only let each person lead the life that the Lord has assigned to him, and to which God has called him. This is my rule in all the churches (1 Corinthians 7:17).

    The emphasis on “call” adds to what he wrote in verse 15: God has called you to peace. Believers live in peace partly by knowing and following God’s call. Paul makes the point that God calls people who are in various situations, as he will go on to outline, including their social status, marital situation, and religious background. God has a purpose for Christians in the situation where they find themselves, and Paul refers to it as “the place to which God has called him” and the life that the Lord has assigned for them.

    Paul wasn’t suggesting that believers should never change their status or place in society. He said that they should know that God has called them and follow what He has shown them and the life He has assigned them to. Paul’s view was that generally believers should remain as they are in relationships and service unless God assigns them to other tasks.

    Was anyone at the time of his call already circumcised? Let him not seek to remove the marks of circumcision. Was anyone at the time of his call uncircumcised? Let him not seek circumcision. For neither circumcision counts for anything nor uncircumcision, but keeping the commandments of God. Each one should remain in the condition in which he was called (1 Corinthians 7:18–20).

    Paul made the point that neither circumcision nor uncircumcision mattered. Old Testament Law that required male circumcision as a sign of God’s covenant with His people had passed away and was not required for Christians. Paul opposed Jewish Christians who wanted gentile converts to be circumcised. He reminded the Corinthians that he always defended the uncircumcised in the church and didn’t allow others to convince them that being circumcised was necessary for salvation or for status in the church.

    Whether one is circumcised or uncircumcised, believers should remain as they are and not be convinced to change; nor should they take pride in being circumcised or uncircumcised. While in general Paul believed that the uncircumcised should remain so, at one point he encouraged Timothy to be circumcised for the sake of peace in the church (Acts 16:3); but he never taught that circumcision was required.

    Were you a bondservant when called? Do not be concerned about it. (But if you can gain your freedom, avail yourself of the opportunity.) (1 Corinthians 7:21)

    In the New Testament, the Greek word doulos is translated as either bondservant, servant, or slave, depending on the Bible one is using and the context of the Bible verse. The ESV Bible translates doulos as bondservant (as in the case of this passage) when it is referring to a more limited form of servitude.1 Paul reminded the Corinthians that if someone was a bondservant (or slave) when they became a believer, then they shouldn’t feel that they needed to change their social status. However, if they could gain their freedom, they should do so.

    For he who was called in the Lord as a bondservant is a freedman of the Lord. Likewise he who was free when called is a bondservant of Christ (1 Corinthians 7:22).

    He explained why bondservants and slaves shouldn’t be disheartened about their social status. Any believer who is enslaved or in servitude is the Lord’s freedman. Slavery was widespread throughout the Mediterranean world at this time. Paul comforted those who were unable to become legally free and reminded them of their inner spiritual condition of freedom in Christ. He pointed out that the status of bondservant or slave carried no dishonor; rather slaves are equal in Christ to those of higher social status. As Paul wrote elsewhere: There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus (Galatians 3:28).2

    You were bought with a price; do not become bondservants of men (1 Corinthians 7:23).

    Paul closed this discussion by repeating what he said earlier: You were bought with a price (1 Corinthians 6:20). All believers have been bought through the price of Christ’s blood. They have been set free from the dominion of sin through Jesus’ death. Because they have this freedom, believers must not become slaves of men.

    Paul encouraged the believers to think of themselves as free men and women regardless of their situation or social status, because Christ had set them free through His death on the cross. Paul emphasized that Christ’s purchase of the church, which He obtained with His own blood, meant that the church’s new identity in Christ required different behavior on the part of believers.

    So, brothers, in whatever condition each was called, there let him remain with God (1 Corinthians 7:24).

    Paul refers to the Corinthian believers as brothers [and sisters] as he repeats the general rule of remaining in the condition that one is called. These words point to the fact that one can know when to change their situation if they depend on God.

    At this point in his letter, Paul responds to a different question from the Corinthians’ letter, returning once again to matters relating to marriage and divorce.

    Now concerning the betrothed, I have no command from the Lord, but I give my judgment as one who by the Lord’s mercy is trustworthy. I think that in view of the present distress it is good for a person to remain as he is (1 Corinthians 7:25–26).

    The “betrothed” are referred to as virgins in most other translations. These women were probably engaged but not yet married. It seems there was disagreement among Corinthian believers as to whether engaged couples should go ahead and get married. Paul stated that Jesus had not taught specifically on the matter (I have no command from the Lord). Paul may have meant that the Corinthians’ present distress (translated in some Bible versions as crisis) presented a unique problem which neither Jesus nor the Old Testament addressed. Nevertheless Paul, as an apostle, had the authority to give his judgment.

    In qualifying his answer by saying I think, Paul offered an opinion or preference rather than an absolute rule. He made it clear that his preference came from the circumstance the church faced in that day. His opinion was that the unmarried should remain unmarried because of the present distress.

    It is rather difficult to know exactly what Paul meant by the present distress. Some famines occurred around this time in history, and he may have been referring to famines in Greece that were causing difficulties for the people of Corinth. In a later chapter, Paul noted that some of the Corinthian believers were hungry when they came to the Lord’s Supper (1 Corinthians 11:21). In light of these difficulties, Paul suggested that unmarried people should remain unmarried. This didn’t mean that virgins should never marry, nor that this was intended to be an ongoing state of affairs, but rather was a temporary pause on weddings based on the present crisis.

    Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be free. Are you free from a wife? Do not seek a wife (1 Corinthians 7:27).

    Paul was probably thinking of those who were betrothed or promised in marriage. Paul didn’t want those who were betrothed to each other to break off their engagements, rather he suggested that they postpone them. He also suggested that those who had been released from marital obligations not look for a wife. His main points were that those who were already engaged should not yet wed, and those who had broken off their engagements should not yet seek to enter new marriages.

    But if you do marry, you have not sinned, and if a betrothed woman marries, she has not sinned. Yet those who marry will have worldly troubles, and I would spare you that (1 Corinthians 7:28).

    While Paul thought marriage was inadvisable due to the crisis of the time, he was not stating that it was a sin to marry. Those who did get married were to do so with their eyes wide open to the troubles they would face. Due to the famines in the area, Paul likely meant that marriage would make it harder to put food on the table. He encouraged caution to those who were unmarried, as he wanted to keep them from such troubles.

    This is what I mean, brothers: the appointed time has grown very short. From now on, let those who have wives live as though they had none, and those who mourn as though they were not mourning, and those who rejoice as though they were not rejoicing, and those who buy as though they had no goods, and those who deal with the world as though they had no dealings with it. For the present form of this world is passing away (1 Corinthians 7:29–31).

    Addressing the Corinthian believers as brothers (also translated as brethren or brothers and sisters) shows Paul’s concern for their well-being. He thinks about all the believers—the married, divorced, widowed, engaged, and single. He makes the point that time is short, and the world in its present form is passing away. He mentions various types of people—those who are married, those who mourn, those who are happy and rejoice, and those who have dealings with the world.

    All these activities are honorable in Paul’s view, but they are geared toward this earthly life, “the present form of this world” and its day-to-day affairs, which is not eternal. He was concerned that believers were investing themselves too deeply in these matters, and he encouraged an eternal perspective. Christians should live as if they have no wives, no mourning, no happiness, no possessions that take up their attention. Of course, Paul’s words shouldn’t be taken in an absolute sense. Elsewhere, he showed a balanced view of marriage responsibility and sexuality (Ephesians 5:22–33), happiness (1 Thessalonians 5:16), mourning (Philippians 3:18), and possessions (1 Timothy 6:8). Here Paul reminds the Corinthians that these legitimate aspects of life should not command their focus.

    I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided. And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband (1 Corinthians 7:32–34).

    I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon you, but to promote good order and to secure your undivided devotion to the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:35).

    Paul personally saw an advantage for Christians in remaining single. Such individuals would be able to be undivided in their service to the Lord. A married person would be divided between their desire to please the Lord and their obligation to please their spouse. However, Paul clarifies that he is not writing a command or using his position as an apostle to tell unmarried people not to marry. Rather he is instructing his readers to help them in considering whether or not to marry.

    If anyone thinks that he is not behaving properly toward his betrothed, if his passions are strong, and it has to be, let him do as he wishes: let them marry—it is no sin (1 Corinthians 7:36).

    While Paul considered remaining single the better option at the time, he knew that it wasn’t the only right choice. God ordained marriage (which Jesus reaffirmed in Matthew 19:4–6), which meant that its legitimacy couldn’t be overridden. He qualified his advice by saying that engaged women who were getting older in years should not postpone marriage. If someone is convinced that getting married is right for them, they should feel free to marry. They are not sinning.

    But whoever is firmly established in his heart, being under no necessity but having his desire under control, and has determined this in his heart, to keep her as his betrothed, he will do well. So then he who marries his betrothed does well, and he who refrains from marriage will do even better (1 Corinthians 7:37–38).

    Paul points out that there should be no compulsion. The person who chooses to marry is making the right choice, as is the person who chooses not to marry. It seems as if some members desired to control others in these matters, whereas Paul refused to let them do so. He expressed his recommendation about postponing marriage given the present crisis; however, he knew that the individuals involved had to make their own decisions. Those who married did right, and those who chose not to marry did right as well; both options were acceptable.

    A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord. Yet in my judgment she is happier if she remains as she is. And I think that I too have the Spirit of God (1 Corinthians 7:39–40).

    Paul returns to matters regarding widows. He begins by reminding the reader of the well-known policy that marriage continues throughout life, but only to the death of a spouse (Romans 7:2). Upon the death of her husband, a widow is free to marry.

    While Paul allowed for remarriage, in his opinion, a widow would be happier if she remained unmarried. This advice was geared to the Corinthian situation. Because his opinion might have seemed contrary to general biblical principles which favor marriage, Paul wanted to make sure that no one dismissed his opinion too quickly, as he reminded them that he also had the Spirit of God.


    Note
    Unless otherwise indicated, all scriptures are from the Holy Bible, English Standard Version, copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a division of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.


    1 For a more detailed explanation of the use of the word doulos in the New Testament, see Living Christianity: The Ten Commandments (Authority, Part 4).

    2 See also Colossians 3:11.

     

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