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    On the very first occasion when someone stood up in public to tell people about Jesus, he made it very clear: this message is for everyone.

    It was a great day—sometimes called the birthday of the church. The great wind of God’s Spirit had swept through Jesus’ followers and filled them with a new joy and a sense of God’s presence and power. Their leader, Peter, who only a few weeks before had been crying like a baby because he’d lied and cursed and denied even knowing Jesus, found himself on his feet explaining to a huge crowd that something had happened which had changed the world forever. What God had done for him, Peter, he was beginning to do for the whole world: new life, forgiveness, new hope and power were opening up like spring flowers after a long winter. A new age had begun in which the living God was going to do new things in the world—beginning then and there with the individuals who were listening to him.

    “This promise is for you,” he said, “and for your children, and for everyone who is far away” (Acts 2:39). It wasn’t just for the person standing next to you. It was for everyone. Within a remarkably short time, this came true to such an extent that the young movement spread throughout much of the known world. And one way in which the “everyone” promise worked out was through the writings of the early Christian leaders. These short works—mostly letters and stories about Jesus—were widely circulated and eagerly read. They were never intended for either a religious or intellectual elite. From the very beginning they were meant for everyone. …

    The book of Acts is full of the energy and excitement of the early Christians as they found God doing new things all over the place and learned to take the good news of Jesus around the world. It’s also full of the puzzles and problems that churches faced then and face today—crises over leadership, money, ethnic divisions, theology and ethics, not to mention serious clashes with political and religious authorities. It’s comforting to know that “normal church life,” even in the time of the first apostles, was neither trouble-free nor plain sailing, just as it’s encouraging to know that even in the midst of all their difficulties the early church was able to take the gospel forward in such dynamic ways.

    Actually, “plain sailing” reminds us that this is the book where more journeys take place, including several across the sea, than anywhere else in the Bible. … There isn’t a dull page in Acts. But, equally importantly, the whole book reminds us that whatever “journey” we are making, in our own lives, our spirituality, our following of Jesus, and our work for His kingdom, His Spirit will guide us, too, and make us fruitful in His service.—N. T. Wright1

    The invitation

    Jesus was God’s love, God’s Word, walking the earth. He was called to pay the ultimate price of dying for the sins of those in the world, and in doing so, He made it possible for us to be reconciled to God, to become God’s children, to have the right to receive the inheritance of our Father, which is eternal life.

    We, as members of God’s family, His adopted children (Galatians 4:4–7), play a role in God’s great story, in His love for humanity, His love for His creation. For we are called to share this story with those who haven’t heard it, who don’t understand it, and who have trouble believing it. With God’s Spirit dwelling in us, we are temples of the Holy Spirit. We are ambassadors of Christ, who have a personal relationship with God, and our commission from Jesus Himself is to share the message, to tell the story, to let others know that they can be part of God’s family. They can become part of God’s kingdom, of His new creation. Their sins can be forgiven—all for free—since the price of their entry into God’s family has been paid for. It’s theirs for the asking.

    It’s helpful to remember the end result of it all, what God is offering, so it’s fresh in our hearts and minds when we offer it to others. Those who become members of God’s family will live forever in a place of incredible beauty—a place with no need of the sun or stars, for God will be its light. There will be no death, mourning, crying, or pain. It’s a place that is free from all evil, a place where God will dwell with His people forever! (See Revelation, Chapter 21). Ours is a message of joy, of happiness, of the possibility of eternal life in the most wonderful place possible, and a renewed life now. It truly is the most important message there is.

    As partakers of these eternal blessings, as His ambassadors (2 Corinthians 5:20), His messengers, we should do our very best to live in a manner which reflects God and His love, which lets people see God’s light and feel His warmth through us, His children. We are to be messengers of the divine invitation, inviting one and all to the feast, to the kingdom of God (Luke 14:23). We are to preach the gospel, the good news that anyone can become God’s child, that His free gift is available to everyone.

    We are to be messengers of love, in word and in deed, to a world desperately in need of God, of His love, His forgiveness, and His mercy (Romans 10:14). We are His messengers; our job is to pass on the invitation, to share the good news, to tell the story through our words, our actions, and our love. Let’s invite everyone we can!—Peter Amsterdam

    Everyone’s invited

    Not everyone will believe the gospel, but everyone should be invited. We know from Scripture, and experience, that not everyone will trust in Jesus and be saved. In fact, many will not. … They will refuse Jesus, so why should we invite them to trust him? ...

    We offer the gospel universally because as far as we can discern, every person we encounter could believe. God knows whom he will draw (John 6:44). Jesus knows who will hear his voice (John 10:27). We don’t, so we just preach. …

    “Everyone who calls upon the name of the Lord will be saved” (Romans 10:13). This verse tells us two things about “everyone.” First, it is not simply everyone, but everyone who calls. Everyone will not be saved, but everyone who calls on the name of Lord will certainly be saved. Second, part of the “everyone who calls” can be anyone at all.

    It doesn’t matter how messed up your life is, or what mistakes you’ve made, or how dismal you see your tomorrow. If you—hardened criminal, reckless teen—if you call on the name of the Lord, you will be saved. It doesn’t matter what language you speak, or what color of skin you have, or how much money is in your bank account, if you turn from your sins and trust in Jesus, you will be saved.

    And therefore, since Jesus can save anybody, we offer this message to everybody. … Every soul is thirsty, every soul is broken, and so it goes for every soul when God says, “Come, everyone who thirsts, come to the waters; and he who has no money, come, buy and eat! Come, buy wine and milk without money and without price” (Isaiah 55:1).

    Grace, in this sense, is the great equalizer. It is the only way that anyone can be reconciled to God. The kid who grows up in church, nourished by a gospel-centered stay-at-home mom, and the strung-out crack addict downtown—if they will belong to God, it will happen by the same way: grace, grace, grace.  

    Because we don’t know who will or won’t believe, because Jesus can save anybody, because everyone can afford free, today this gospel goes to everyone.—Jonathan Parnell2

    Published on Anchor December 2024. Read by Gabriel Garcia Valdivieso. Music by Michael Fogarty.


    1 N. T. Wright, Acts for Everyone (SPCK, 2008).

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Faith-building Bible studies and articles

  • Virtues for Christ-Followers: Self-control

    Self-control (or self-discipline, depending on the Bible translation) is the last virtue in our list. We find several references to self-control throughout the New Testament.

    In 1 Corinthians, Paul gives a descriptive picture of self-control when talking about the race we run: “Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified.”1

    When speaking of the last days, Paul tells the believers, “But understand this, that in the last days … people will be lovers of self, lovers of money,” “without self-control,” and “lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God.”2 Elsewhere he says, “So then let us not sleep, as others do, but let us keep awake and be sober.”3 In his first epistle, Peter likewise warns that “the end of all things is at hand; therefore be self-controlled and sober-minded for the sake of your prayers.”4

    Self-control, as described in Scripture, can be understood as having the inner strength of character which empowers us to control our passions and desires, as well as to be able to exercise sound judgment when it comes to our thoughts, emotions, actions, and decisions. Sound judgment enables us to determine the right course of action and the proper way to respond to a situation.

    Growing in self-control in our lives starts with recognizing areas in our life where we lack it, where we need to bring our lives more closely in alignment with God’s Word. The next step is to acknowledge our insufficiency to overcome our weakness and sin by our own efforts, and to seek the Lord in prayer, asking Him to change us. Then, we put feet to our prayers by practicing self-control—either by saying no to the things that we know we shouldn’t be doing or by saying yes to the things we know we should be doing. (For more on this topic, see More Like Jesus: Self-control.)

    The biblical concept of self-control implies that as human beings we have desires that we should control instead of satisfy. Growing in the virtue of self-control means learning to control ourselves—our emotions, desires, and feelings—through the power of the Holy Spirit, as the following articles highlight.

    Building Self-control

    The secret to building self-control is to yield our lives to God and let His Holy Spirit guide our thoughts, our actions, and our life. “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world,” Paul advises, “but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.”5

    That doesn’t mean we won’t face temptation or continue to work to overcome bad habits and weak areas in our lives. We need to do our part, of course. We need to put up some resistance when temptation comes knocking, and we need to work on strengthening our weak areas. But the fact of the matter is, we all sometimes fall prey to temptation, give in to our personal weaknesses, or overindulge in some things that would be fine in moderation. The apostle Paul could have been speaking for us all when he wrote: 

    “I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. I want to do what is right, but I can’t. I want to do what is good, but I don’t. I don’t want to do what is wrong, but I do it anyway. I have discovered this principle of life—that when I want to do what is right, I inevitably do what is wrong. I love God’s law with all my heart. But there is another power within me that is at war with my mind. This power makes me a slave to the sin that is still within me. Oh, what a miserable person I am! Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death?”6

    But then Paul hit upon the answer: “Thank God! The answer is in Jesus Christ our Lord.”7Rafael Holding8

    God’s Power

    “Every athlete in training submits to strict discipline, in order to be crowned with a wreath that will not last; but we do it for one that will last forever” (1 Corinthians 9:25 GNT). “No pain, no gain” is the way fitness trainers put it, and they are right. Peak performance requires self-discipline and self-control. Olympic athletes train for years to have a chance to win a brief moment of glory. But the race we are running is far more important than any earthly athletic event. So self-control is not optional for Christians…

    Three times in 1 Peter, God reminds us to be clear-minded and self-controlled. Why? Because a clear mind has a lot to do with self-control. God gave us the power to change our habits when he gave us the power to choose our thoughts. Does Romans 12:2 tell us to be transformed by working hard or by sheer willpower? No. What are we to be transformed by? The renewing of the mind. When your self-control is being tested, you need to fill your mind with the promises of God…

    The Bible says that God puts his Holy Spirit in us to give us power. All Christians have God’s Spirit in their lives, but not all Christians have God’s power in their lives. Jesus gives a beautiful illustration of this in John 15. He compares our spiritual life to a vine and its branches: “I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing” (John 15:5 NKJV)…

    The secret of depending on God’s Spirit is to be incessantly in prayer. Pray about your decisions. Pray about your needs. Pray about your interests. Pray about your schedule. Pray about problems you are facing. Pray about people you are going to meet. Pray about purchases. Pray about everything. That is what it means to “abide”—to be aware that God is always with you, to practice his presence. As you pray, you will start to see the fruit of the Spirit developing in your life.—Rick Warren9

    A Spirit of Power and Self-control

    Self-control helps us to resist temptation and avoid conforming to the things of this world. It guides our decisions, and it correlates with how we show the other fruits in our lives. For example, forbearance, or patience, requires self-control. Proverbs 14:29 says, “Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly.” Our sinful nature leads us to give in to our temper, but we are called to rise above this and show patience. Self-control can be applied to all of the fruits of the Spirit in the same way it is applied to forbearance…

    Jesus Christ gives us the perfect example of self-control, because He lived a sinless life and possessed every fruit of the Spirit. Jesus demonstrated self-control because He was sent to earth to carry out the Father’s will. He was to live a perfect life in order to set an example for us, and in the end, He died for our sins so that we may have eternal life.

    In Matthew 26:53–54, Jesus says, “Do you think I cannot call on my Father, and He will at once put at my disposal more than twelve legions of angels? But how then would the scriptures be fulfilled that say it must happen this way?”

    Jesus knew what He was sent to Earth to do, and despite His own [trepidation], He demonstrated self-control in submitting to the Father’s perfect plan. Without the self-control of Jesus, we would face death as the punishment of our sin.

    2 Timothy 1:7 says, “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” With the Holy Spirit inside of us, we are able to possess self-control and demonstrate the fruits of the Spirit. As a result, we can live in a way that is honorable to God.—Lauren Abraham10

    A Gift of the Holy Spirit

    Biblically, self-control, or lack thereof, goes to the deepest part of us: the heart. It begins with control of our emotions, and then includes our minds as well. Self-control is often paired with “sober-mindedness” (1 Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:8; Titus 2:2; 1 Peter 4:7), and in several places the language of “self-control” applies especially to the mind…

    We want to control ourselves in the power He supplies. We learn to say no, but we don’t just say no. We admit the inadequacy, and emptiness, of doing it on our own. We pray for Jesus’ help, secure accountability, and craft specific strategies. We trust God’s promises to supply the power for every good work (2 Corinthians 9:8; Philippians 4:19) and then act in faith that he will do it in and through us (Philippians 2:12–13)…

    Ultimately, our controlling ourselves is about being controlled by Christ. When “the love of Christ controls us” (2 Corinthians 5:14), when we embrace the truth that he is our sovereign, we can bask in the freedom that we need not muster our own strength to exercise self-control, but we can find strength in the strength of another. In the person of Jesus, “the grace of God has appeared … training us”—not just “to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions,” but “to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age” (Titus 2:11–12). …

    Because self-control is a gift, produced in and through us by God’s Spirit, Christians can and should be the people on the planet most hopeful about growing in self-control. We are, after all, brothers and sisters of the most self-controlled man in the history of the world.

    All his life he was “without sin” (Hebrews 4:15). “He committed no sin, neither was deceit found in his mouth” (1 Peter 2:22). He stayed the course even when sweat came like drops of blood (Luke 22:44)… When reviled, he did not revile in return (1 Peter 2:23) … In every trial and temptation, “he learned obedience through what he suffered” (Hebrews 5:8), and at the pinnacle of his self-control he was “obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross” (Philippians 2:8). And he is the one who strengthens us (Philippians 4:13).

    In Jesus, we have a source for true self-control far beyond that of our feeble selves.—David Mathis11

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    Benjamin Carson is one of the world’s most renowned physicians. He was raised in a poverty-stricken neighborhood of Detroit by a divorced mother who had to hold down several jobs to make ends meet. Though she had only a third-grade education, she radically improved the flagging school performance of young Benjamin and his brother by forcing them to turn off the television and read books instead.

    But though Carson’s academic work prospered, he faced another obstacle to success—a violent temper. By his own account, he often hit people with a bat or rock, including one incident that broke the glasses of a neighbor and almost destroyed an eye.

    The climax came in ninth grade when Carson tried to stab a boy in the gut. Fortunately, the intended victim was wearing a large metal belt buckle that broke the blade. “I realized that a temper like that was going to land me in jail, reform school or the grave,” Carson recalled.

    He “started praying and asking God to deliver [him] from this temper.” Then, seeking guidance amid youthful misery, he began reading from the Old Testament’s Book of Proverbs. This verse particularly hit home:

    “He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city” (16:32).

    After undergoing this spiritual crisis, Carson says he found himself able to control his temper. He graduated third in his class at Southwestern High and won a scholarship to Yale. No doubt self-control enabled him to become a healer and a star surgeon.—Richard Ostling12

    God Is Faithful

    There I was, scrolling Instagram mindlessly once again and getting sucked into the black hole of the pages of “influencers” advertising product after product, sale after sale, deal after deal. It was getting so out of hand that I was finding myself clicking “add to cart” and hiding the packages from my husband when the boxes showed up on our doorstep a few days later. I knew it was wrong, but it felt like the temptation was too strong to stop this familiar cycle of impulsive buying. But this was a lie. No temptation is too strong for us to overcome.

    It is important to remember that we don’t base truth on our feelings. We must look to what God’s Word says to renew our minds with His truth and gain wisdom on making healthy and [godly] choices. When it comes to self-control and overcoming any temptation that we face, we can find truth in 1 Corinthians. The apostle Paul states:

    “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it” (1 Corinthians 10:13 NIV)…

    We may feel like the temptation is too much to bear, but God always provides us a way of escape; we must ask the Lord to give us wisdom and spiritual eyes to see the way out. For me, personally, the wisdom was to unfollow these influencers’ Instagram pages so that the temptation of what they were sharing was no longer before my eyes continually.

    The Holy Spirit is faithful to continue to give us wisdom and guidance and strengthen us when we submit our ways to Him. He will convict our hearts, remind us of what the Bible says, and cultivate the fruit that we have received, especially the fruit of self-control. As believers, we have received the fruit of the Spirit, and just like fruit in the natural, it must be cultivated. The longer we walk with the Lord and study His Word, the more our fruit is developed and strengthened within us.—Emily Massey13

    A Prayer to Grow in Self-control

    Dear Lord, as I face the day ahead, I invite You to guide my thoughts, words, and actions. Grant me the strength to embrace discipline, not as a burden, but as a path to freedom. Help me to find joy in the small acts of self-control and to remember that each choice I make is an opportunity to reflect Your love and grace.

    In the hustle and bustle of today’s demands, be my steady calm. Teach me to prioritize not just the urgent but the important. Remind me that self-discipline is a form of worship, a way to honor You in every aspect of my life. Let Your Spirit guide me to choices that bring life, joy, and peace. In Jesus’ name, Amen.—Laura Mendenhall14

    Food for Thought

    “For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age, waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ” (Titus 2:11–13).

    “True self-control is not about bringing our selves under our own control, but under the power of Christ.”—David Mathis

    “Make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge, and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with steadfastness, and steadfastness with godliness, and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love” (2 Peter 1:5–7).

    “Self-control is the exercise of inner strength under the direction of sound judgment that enables us to do, think, and say the things that are pleasing to God.”—Jerry Bridges

    (To be continued.)


    Note

    Unless otherwise indicated, all scriptures are from the Holy Bible, English Standard Version, copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a division of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.


    1 1 Corinthians 9:24–27.

    2 2 Timothy 3:1–4.

    3 1 Thessalonians 5:6.

    4 1 Peter 4:7.

    5 Romans 12:2 NLT.

    6 Romans 7:18–19, 21–24 NLT.

    7 Romans 7:25 NLT.

    8 “Developing Biblical Self-Control,” Anchor, June 2014.

    9 Rick Warren, God’s Power to Change Your Life (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 2006).

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