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  • Aligning Our Lives to God’s Moral Will

    By Peter Amsterdam

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    God has revealed His moral will to us through Scripture, which teaches us how we ought to believe and live. He makes it clear that some things are morally wrong, and thus are sin. Through God’s grace and the empowerment of the Holy Spirit, we endeavor to avoid sin and to take on specific traits, characteristics, and attitudes that reflect and imitate the nature and characteristics of God.1

    We are called to “be imitators of God, as beloved children. And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God” (Ephesians 5:1–2). We are likewise called to emulate God’s forgiveness: “Forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive” (Colossians 3:13).

    Jesus commanded us to “be merciful, even as your Father is merciful” (Luke 6:36). He taught us to extend kindness, even to enemies, and to “do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil” (Luke 6:35).

    Through these and numerous other examples throughout the Bible, we are instructed on how to live in a way that aligns with God’s moral will. We are called to keep His teachings, to make them our own, and to use them as a compass throughout the course of our lives. “For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments. And his commandments are not burdensome” (1 John 5:3).

    Becoming God’s children through faith in Jesus has made us new creations (2 Corinthians 5:17), those who are to “be conformed to the image of his Son” (Romans 8:29), who have “put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator” (Colossians 3:10). Part of the process of being renewed in His likeness is conforming our lives to His moral will. We align our external behavior and actions as well as our motives and attitudes with His Word.

    From His Word we learn which attitudes and actions are right or wrong, what is sin and what is not, what pleases God and what doesn’t, and what reflects His character and what doesn’t. We know this as a result of reading, studying, meditating on, accepting, and applying God’s Word. Accepting what God says means that when we read of God censuring some actions, desires, and attitudes, we accept that they fall outside the circle of His moral will, and thus are wrong and sin. For example, when we read in Ephesians that we aren’t to steal or let corrupting talk come out of our mouths, or in Colossians that we’re to get rid of anger, rage, malicious behavior, slander and obscene talk, evil desire, lust, and covetousness, then we are to understand that these things fall outside of God’s moral will and thus are sinful and displeasing to God (Ephesians 4:28–29; Colossians 3:8, 5).

    Of course, every command of God’s moral will is an expression of the greatest command of all: to love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, and to love our neighbor as ourself (Mark 12:30–31). We are called to act in love toward others: “Whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets” (Matthew 7:12).

    These teachings of Jesus summarize all the teachings about sin, and when we make our love for God and others our guiding principle—when our actions, thoughts, and attitudes are based on the premise of a heart that fully loves God with all of our being, and has the same love for others as we have for ourselves—then we will avoid sinning.

    As fallen human beings, we are sometimes inclined to justify our actions as being loving when in fact they are not. Or we may think some action is loving, and therefore not sinful, without fully exploring all of the potential ramifications of our actions, which can end up being unloving toward others. Clearly, it’s important that we have a good understanding of what is and isn’t included within God’s moral will, which comes through reading, studying, and meditating on what the Bible teaches.

    It is easy to develop an attitude that sin doesn’t matter so much, since we have salvation and our sins are already forgiven, but such an attitude shows a lack of understanding of what the Bible teaches about sin and its effects. Scripture tells us that sin is an offense to God, including the sin of a Christian. Being forgiven is a wonderful gift of God; but as believers, we are in relationship with Him—a relationship which suffers damage when we sin. While our sins are forgiven, there can still be consequences in our lives or in the lives of others due to our sin.

    As pursuers of Christlikeness, we must face the fact of sin in our lives and respond to it appropriately. God has given us a conscience, the inborn ability to discern the difference between right and wrong, which helps us judge whether or not an act we have planned or have already carried out is moral. As Christians, we fine-tune our conscience as we align it with God’s moral will, when we agree with what God has revealed in Scripture about what is right and wrong, what is godly, what actions reflect His nature and being. We are called to follow our Scripture-informed conscience, to avoid sin, in order to remain in close relationship with our Father.

    Because we are human, we will sin; but because we are Christians, we are to put effort into not damaging our relationship with God by doing our best not to sin. We’re told to “put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness” (Ephesians 4:22–24).

    Of course, no matter how much we try not to sin, we do. And when we do, if we have the right understanding of sin, we feel guilt and sorrow. We damage our relationship with God, and repairing that relationship starts with acknowledging and confessing our sins to Him. First John teaches that “if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). Besides confessing, another element is repentance—change of attitude, turning away and going the opposite direction. Repentance calls for change in our behavior, a commitment to stop committing the sins we have been committing.

    This isn’t easy, especially when we have made a habit of some sins or have accepted some sinful behavior as part of our personality, such as impatience, lack of self-control, being judgmental, anger, selfishness, pride, anxiety, sins of the tongue, addictions, etc. It can be a struggle to accept that because Scripture calls these things sins, we are expected to change and stop doing them, by God’s grace. His Word tells us that by God’s grace, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13).

    If we want to become more like Jesus, we have to face our sins. We can’t simply look at them as personality traits or excuse them as “this is the way I am, I can’t change”; nor can we justify sinning by thinking, “this is just a small sin, so it doesn’t matter much.” Part of Christlikeness is accepting what Scripture says is sin, recognizing our sins, confessing our sins, and crying out to the Lord for His help to overcome them. Then we have to make a conscious effort and commitment to overcome them.

    Our goal is not perfection. We aren’t trying to robotically obey every jot and tittle of Scripture, with the goal of being sin-free—that’s impossible. Our goal is to respond to God’s declared moral will in a manner that is a genuine expression of the reality of our saved soul, from a heart full of gratitude.

    We obey Him because we love Him. We love Him because of who He is—our Creator and Savior. We desire to imitate Him because He is pure love, pure goodness, and pure holiness. We want to emulate Him both inwardly and outwardly. God is the standard of godliness, and since He has revealed what He is like and what He approves and disapproves of, as we seek to be like Him, we will take these things to heart.

    He has revealed His moral will through the Bible, and His will, as presented through Scripture, is an expression of His character. If we desire to be more like Jesus, we will aim to live in a way which expresses God’s character. This means making a conscious effort to align our thoughts, desires, attitudes, and actions with godliness and with the guidance provided through Scripture.

    God is perfect good, perfect love, holiness, and righteousness. He is an example to us of moral and ethical perfection. While we can’t attain perfection, we are called to internalize God’s standards and live by them, to do our best to reflect Him and to grow in Christlikeness. “And the Lord—who is the Spirit—makes us more and more like him as we are changed into his glorious image” (2 Corinthians 3:18).

    Originally published October 2016. Adapted and republished May 2025. Read by Reuben Ruchevsky.


    1 This article is based on key points from the book Decision Making and the Will of God by Garry Friesen (Colorado Springs: Multnomah, 2004).

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  • 1 Corinthians: Chapter 11 (verses 2–16)

    This next portion of Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians reflects the relationships between men and women and cultural expectations in first-century Corinth. The relationship between husbands and wives is presented within the context of the world of two thousand years ago and customs of the time. Today the role of women, contemporary norms for dress codes, and the understanding of the equality of women is much different than in the distant past. However, as a commentary written in Paul’s time to people living within that period, it reflects the attitudes and expectations of that time.

    Now I commend you because you remember me in everything and maintain the traditions even as I delivered them to you. (1 Corinthians 11:2)

    It was likely a relief for the Corinthians to hear Paul’s opening words praising them for remembering him in everything. It seems that he was happy that many of his teachings were being followed by the believers. He praised the Corinthian church for holding on to the teachings or the traditions, referring to the oral teachings about Jesus handed down to Paul by the first disciples such as Peter, and which he passed on to them.

    In this chapter, Paul was dealing with a controversial matter pertaining to public worship. It seems that some of the Corinthian church rejected the practice of married women covering their head when partaking of public worship. Paul knew that many practiced this cultural norm of the time, but he also felt the need to explain why everyone should continue it. He was concerned with how men and women interacted with each other in public worship and how it would be viewed by those outside the church. Paul also focused on prayer and prophecy, teaching and preaching of God’s Word (1 Corinthians 11:4–5), which would have taken place when the believers were gathered together.

    But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God. (1 Corinthians 11:3)

    Paul described three forms of headship here: Christ is the head of every man; husbands are heads of their wives; God is the head of Christ. Yet Paul did not state the roles of men, wives, and Christ here.

    The ancient Greeks often used the term head to refer to the source from which something came; and in this verse Paul mentioned that “man did not come from woman, but woman came from man” (1 Corinthians 11:8). Some interpreters believe that head in this case means “source,” as the “head” of a river is the source of the water that flows in a river. In this view, Christ is the source of males in the sense that Christ created Adam from the dust (Genesis 2:7). Men are also considered the source of females in the sense that Eve was taken from Adam (Genesis 2:22). God the Father is the head of Christ because Christ “came from the Father” (John 16:27–28).

    Other Bible scholars believe that head implies that a chain of authority comes from the Father to Christ, to husbands, and to their wives. This view is supported mainly from the Old Testament use of the Hebrew word head in relation to leadership or authority.

    Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head, (1 Corinthians 11:4)

    Paul addressed the men first, stating that every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors Christ, who is the head of every man. In the Roman Empire, men generally covered their heads with their togas when they performed pagan worship. It is likely that this practice had reached the people of Corinth, and Paul was condemning the adoption of this practice.

    Paul likely at least warned the believers against adopting this practice in the church. For a man to cover his head in the worship of Christ was to worship the same way the pagan men worshiped their gods. Imitating this practice mixed false religion into the worship of Christ, which dishonored Him. In writing this, Paul was not stating this as a command for all believers, rather it was a specific statement to the Corinthians and their need to avoid association with pagan customs, as he expressed in earlier chapters.

    but every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. For if a wife will not cover her head, then she should cut her hair short. But since it is disgraceful for a wife to cut off her hair or shave her head, let her cover her head. (1 Corinthians 11:4–6)

    Focusing specifically on wives, Paul affirmed that women could pray or prophesy in public worship. Although Paul didn’t allow women to serve in the ordained positions of pastor, elder, or teacher (1 Timothy 2:12), he didn’t restrict women from speaking the truth of God’s Word or praying and prophesying in public worship.

    However, Paul insisted that any wife praying or prophesying in public should do so with her head covered. The understanding at the time was that if a woman spoke in worship with her head uncovered, she dishonored her head. While Paul may have referred to a woman’s physical head, it’s more likely that he meant that she dishonored her husband, who is referred to in verse 3 as the head of a wife. Paul argued that if it is a disgrace to her husband for the woman to have her head shaved, then she should cover her head in public worship.

    For a man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God, but woman is the glory of man. (1 Corinthians 11:7)

    Paul supported his view here with Scripture. He began by claiming that a man shouldn’t imitate a pagan head covering because he is the image and glory of God. In Genesis we read that both Adam and Eve were created in the image of God (Genesis 1:27).

    So what did Paul mean by saying that man is the image of God in contrast with woman? He likely meant Adam held a special status (glory) in God’s image because he was created first. He was made directly from the dust by God, while God made Eve from Adam’s body. This gave Adam and his male descendants a unique role on earth that was not held in the same way by women. Of course, the world has changed since Paul’s time, and cultural expectations for the roles of men and women have changed as well. While maintaining different roles for men and women, Paul also affirmed the equality of men and women in Galatians 3:28: “There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”

    Theologian Wayne Grudem wrote,

    When in 1 Corinthians 11:7 Paul says, “A man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God; but woman is the glory of man,” he is not denying that woman was created in the image of God. He is simply saying that there are abiding differences between men and women that should be reflected in the way they dress and act in the assembled congregation. … Yet in both cases Paul goes on to emphasize their interdependence (see vv. 11–12).1

    Paul went on to say that woman is the glory of man. Paul didn’t mean that woman is not the glory of God, as all of creation is for God’s glory (Romans 11:36). He likely meant that woman is the glory of both man and of God, and not just of God. Paul called women the glory of their husbands because this is one of their unique roles in the order of creation. According to Genesis 2, God created Eve to make it possible for the human race to fulfill the task given to Adam. For this reason, Eve is referred to as a helper suitable for Adam (Genesis 2:18 NIV). The Hebrew word helper doesn’t mean “inferior,” but “aid” or “assistant.” Eve was the glory of Adam in a special way.

    For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man. (1 Corinthians 11:8–9)

    Paul continued his explanation that woman is the glory of man by appealing to another aspect of creation. He reminds his readers that man didn’t come from woman and that man was not created for woman. He implied that husbands aren’t the glory of women. Rather, the woman came from man and was created for man. Because she was created from and for man, a wife is to bring glory to her husband.

    On this point, Leon Morris comments:

    Paul makes it clear that what he has been saying is not meant as an undue subordination of women. There is a partnership between the sexes and in the Lord neither exists without the other. ... The man must not exaggerate the significance of his having been created first. There is a fundamental equality.2

    That is why a wife ought to have a symbol of authority on her head, because of the angels. (1 Corinthians 11:10)

    This verse presents several difficulties. It is not clear what the symbol of authority on her head is, or what role the angels play, and why. None of the research material I used when writing these posts gave a clear explanation of this verse. There seems to be a wide variety of opinions about the meaning of this verse, many of which contradict each other. While those to whom Paul wrote to likely understood his meaning, it isn’t clear enough today, or at least to me, so I thought it best not to include commentary on it.

    Nevertheless, in the Lord woman is not independent of man nor man of woman; for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman. And all things are from God. (1 Corinthians 11:11–12)

    Having affirmed the responsibilities of husbands and wives to honor their heads in worship, Paul feared his instructions might be taken as a complete statement on the relations of men and women. Therefore, Paul clarified what he said, prefacing his comment with the word nevertheless. He began with the expression in the Lord, a phrase he used elsewhere to identify people in the body of Christ (Romans 16:8, 1 Corinthians 4:17). Paul wanted to make it clear that such assumptions had no place in his teaching.

    Paul brought two points to the foreground. First, neither husbands nor wives are independent from each other. Paul restated that woman (a wife) is not independent of the man (a husband), a principle evident in this chapter from verses 3–10. Her authority was always meant to complement man’s authority, so she must not think of herself as autonomous. Next, Paul added that man (a husband) is not independent of the woman (a wife). Husbands are not to think that their headship implies independence from, or superiority to, their wives.

    To support this claim, Paul referred to the interdependence between man and woman. While woman came from man when Eve was made from Adam’s rib (Genesis 2:22), it is also true that man is born of woman. Every man has a mother, and this fact speaks against any man’s temptation to think of himself as free from the obligations to honor women. “Honor your father and your mother, as the LORD your God commanded you, that your days may be long, and that it may go well with you in the land that the LORD your God is giving you” (Deuteronomy 5:16).

    Judge for yourselves: is it proper for a wife to pray to God with her head uncovered? (1 Corinthians 11:13)

    With these words Paul was not encouraging the Corinthians to ignore his teaching. He meant that they should not blindly obey his instructions; they were to think things through. He said this because he was convinced the believers in Corinth were able to think properly on this issue and he hoped they would come to his conclusions. Paul put the matter to them, asking them if it was proper for women to pray in public worship with their heads uncovered. He chose to argue from what was appropriate rather than from what was righteous. He appealed to the Corinthians’ own notions. Knowing their worldview, he expected them to agree with his position.

    Does not nature itself teach you that if a man wears long hair it is a disgrace for him, but if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For her hair is given to her for a covering. (1 Corinthians 11:14–15)

    This part of Paul’s argument is difficult to understand. He continued to express his position regarding married women’s head coverings by putting forward another question, asking them to consider cultural norms regarding hair lengths for men and women. The exact meaning of the question, however, is puzzling. Several explanations have been put forward, though none seem adequate.

    Paul expected the Corinthians to recognize that men should have short hair and women long hair, likely because of the cultural norms of the time in Corinth. He also expected them to understand that the glory of women’s long hair affirmed the practice of married women covering their heads in public worship. A woman’s head covering in first-century Roman society was a sign of marriage, and a cultural expectation for wives of that time.

    If anyone is inclined to be contentious, we have no such practice, nor do the churches of God. (1 Corinthians 11:16)

    Paul expected some resistance to his view. He admitted that some Corinthian believers would be contentious about this, which could be either men or women. Paul sought to settle the matter by appealing to the widespread practice of the church, saying, we have no such practice. This could be translated as “we have no such custom.” Paul meant that he and other church leaders, and the churches of God, had no other practice than having women cover their heads in public worship.

    One commentator offered some thoughts regarding the application of the first half of 1 Corinthians 11:

    This section of the letter raises the perennial question of the relationship of current social customs to Christian morality and practice. Behind all that Paul says is the principle that Christians must always act in a seemly manner: ‘everything should be done in a fitting and orderly way’ (1 Corinthians 14:40). The application of this principle to first-century Corinth yields the direction that women must have their heads covered when they worship. The principle is of permanent validity, but we may well feel that its application to the contemporary scene need not yield the same result. In other words, in the light of our totally different social customs, we may well hold that the fullest acceptance of the principle underlying this chapter does not require that in Western lands in the twentieth century women must always wear hats when they pray.3

    As a side note, the Catholic church required women to wear a head covering during the Catholic Mass until 1983, when the church discontinued the practice.

    (To be continued.)


    Note
    Unless otherwise indicated, all scriptures are from the Holy Bible, English Standard Version, copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a division of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.


    1 Wayne Grudem, Systematic Theology: An Introduction to Bible Doctrine (Zondervan, 1994), 457.

    2 Leon Morris, 1 Corinthians: An Introduction and Commentary, vol. 7, Tyndale New Testament Commentaries (InterVarsity Press, 1985), 153.

    3 Morris, 1 Corinthians: An Introduction and Commentary, 154–155.

     

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