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    Over the years, Christmas has taken on different meanings for me. When I was a young child, it meant a special family holiday, reading the Christmas story at Sunday school, walking home in the snow, and a new book to read.

    After receiving Jesus as my Savior, Christmas took on the meaning of sharing the message of His birth and “good will to men” with others.

    Still later, after I got married and had children, it meant making new family traditions, which included decorating, giving gifts, and preparing Christmas dinners together in a bustling and cozy home atmosphere.

    All of these past Christmases evoke warm memories, and as Norman Vincent Peale so aptly said, thinking about them waves a magic wand over my world and makes everything seem softer and more beautiful.

    However, when my family dynamic changed with divorce and children leaving home, I came to experience what it means to be an empty nester—and alone at Christmas. It wasn’t an easy adjustment.

    That first Christmas morning alone in a small apartment, I woke to a decorated but silent home. I was heading to see my son and his family later that day, and got up to prepare a side dish for the dinner they were hosting. The presents under my tree would also be taken to their home for distribution. It was the first time for me to not host an event at Christmas and to not be surrounded by kids and grandkids, and I had to fight against the forlorn and lonely feelings that started to overwhelm me.

    The time spent together later that day was lovely, and I enjoyed the time I had with my son, grandson, and his wife’s family very much—until it was time to go back to my empty flat. Driving home alone was miserable, and once back home, I shed some lonely tears.

    Sitting in my silent living room, I picked up a Christmas-themed gift book on my coffee table, and leafing through the pages, I reflected on how Jesus left His home in heaven to bring love and hope to the world. I realized that I undoubtedly wasn’t the only lonely person that Christmas, and after drying my tears, I picked up the phone and dialed the number of an elderly woman I had befriended some time ago. Talking with her, I learned that she also had been home alone, and she was so grateful for our chat. I also called my children whom I hadn’t spoken with yet that day, and some relatives abroad, and found that some of them hadn’t had the “perfect” Christmas either. I felt better after reaching out to others, and I determined to remember this for next Christmas, and all the ones after that.

    Each of my Christmases since then has been different. One Christmas I volunteered and spent time helping a few elderly people decorate their trees or homes, as it can be hard for them to do it on their own. I’ve also baked cookies with my grandchildren and taken them around to neighbors who don’t get many visitors. And a phone or FaceTime call never failed to make a difference and bring smiles to my face and the faces of those who lived too far away to go see.

    Life happens, and you, too, may find yourself alone at Christmas because of children moving out, divorce, or bereavement. It’s not an easy adjustment to make, and lonely tears may flow at times. Still, although circumstances may be different, being alone at Christmas doesn’t have to be a negative experience. Even when we’re alone, we’re never completely alone, because Jesus is always with us, and when we reach out and give of ourselves to others, fulfillment and joy come back to us.—Lilia Potters

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    My idea of Christmas, whether old-fashioned or modern, is very simple: loving others. Come to think of it, why do we have to wait for Christmas to do that?—Bob Hope

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    Being alone and being lonely are two different things. One can be alone without being lonely, and one can be lonely in a crowded room. Loneliness is, therefore, a state of mind, an emotion brought on by feelings of separation from other human beings. …

    No one felt loneliness more keenly than David… His own son had risen up against him, the men of Israel went after him, and he was forced to flee from the city and leave his house and family. Lonely and afflicted (Psalm 25:16), his only recourse was to turn to God and plead for mercy and God’s intervention (Psalm 25:21) because his only hope was in God…

    Whatever the cause of loneliness, for the Christian the cure is always the same—the comforting fellowship of Christ. That loving relationship with our Master has reassured and encouraged countless thousands who languished in prisons and even went to their deaths for His sake. He is the friend who “sticks closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24), who lays down His life for His friends (John 15:13–15), and who has promised never to leave us or forsake us but to be with us until the end of the age (Matthew 28:20).—GotQuestions.org1

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    I’d been trying not to think about Christmas, dreading the day, hoping against hope that some angel would come into my life and make everything okay. I even tried pretending that it was just a normal day, nothing special, in hopes that would make the loneliness go away.

    But I couldn’t avoid it: Christmas was all around me, and I was alone. No one to talk to, no one to laugh with, and no one to wish me a happy Christmas. With each minute that passed I was getting more depressed, and that’s what I dreaded the most!

    To cheer myself up, I searched for happy memories to occupy my mind. One that popped up was about my Sunday school teacher. He was an easygoing, friendly man who spent a lot of time with us kids and had a knack for making things fun. He had said that Jesus was the joy of his life. His words ran through my mind as I thought back to those childhood days when he said, “Just take Jesus with you.”

    Would that work? I thought about it. I was alone—no one would know the difference. So, I decided then and there to make Jesus my friend for the day.

    We did everything together: drank hot chocolate by the fire, walked the streets together, talked about how pretty the world was, laughed, and waved at passersby. I could almost feel His arm around me everywhere I went and hear His voice talking to me. In whispers beyond the realm of audible sound, He told me He loved me—yes, me—and that He would always be my friend. Somehow I knew I would never be alone again.

    As I lay down to sleep that Christmas night, I felt so happy, so peaceful, so content. It seemed odd, but then again it didn’t. I’d spent the day with Jesus, and I just hoped that others had had as happy a Christmas Day as me.—Vivian Peterson

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    “And you can be sure that I am always with you, to the very end.”—Jesus, Matthew 28:20

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    How do we fight so hard to create fun holiday memories, only to feel like failures? ... It’s supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year. So how do we evict the Grinch-like grumpiness and Charlie Brown sadness to recapture the joy of Christmas?

    I’m encouraged by the story of the wise men preserved for us in Scripture. As they followed a shining star for hundreds of miles, looking for Jesus, they stopped by King Herod’s Jerusalem palace.

    But King Herod had to tell them Jesus wasn’t there—He was in Bethlehem.

    “After they had heard the king, they went on their way, and the star they had seen when it rose went ahead of them until it stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they were overjoyed” (Matthew 2:9–10).

    Overjoyed.

    That word gives me pause. When the wise men saw the star, the ESV Bible says “they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy” (Matthew 2:10).

    That is what I want for us this Christmas season: to recalibrate our holiday disorientation and set our sights on the shining Light of the world. Then we’ll rejoice with jubilation and celebration—as the Magi did so long ago.

    I offer this prayer for Christmas joy as a simple path to turn our attention back to King Jesus. May you find its words guiding you into His presence again and again:

    Lord, how creative You are to use even the stars above to guide people into Your presence! Draw us close to You this Christmas season. Turn our disappointments into prompts for prayer and our festive celebrations into channels of adoration.

    You alone bring true joy to the world, so help us slow down, quiet our hearts, and fix our eyes on You, Jesus—the Light that shines brighter than any star. As the wise men were filled with great joy, fill us up to overflow with the wonder of Your birth, Jesus.

    Restore the sparkle to our eyes and the joy of salvation to our hearts as we seek You, today and every day. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.—Asheritah Ciuciu2

    Published on Anchor December 2025. Read by Jerry Paladino. Music from the Christmas Moments album, used by permission.


    1 “What does the Bible say about loneliness?” GotQuestions.org, https://www.gotquestions.org/loneliness.html

    2 Asheritah Ciuciu, “A Prayer for Christmas Joy,” Proverbs31.org, December 2, 2024, https://proverbs31.org/read/devotions/full-post/2024/12/02/a-prayer-for-christmas-joy

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  • 1 Corinthians: Chapter 15 (verses 1–19)

    1 Corinthians 15 is the longest chapter in Paul’s letters to the Corinthians, and the third longest chapter in the New Testament. This chapter covers the topic of the resurrection in detail. Because of its length and the importance of the subject matter, it will be presented in three sections.

    Now I would remind you, brothers, of the gospel I preached to you, which you received, in which you stand, and by which you are being saved, if you hold fast to the word I preached to you—unless you believed in vain (1 Corinthians 15:1–2).

    In this chapter, Paul is writing to clarify some misunderstandings among the Corinthian church regarding the resurrection. These issues were likely raised to him in the letter written to him by the Corinthians (1 Corinthians 7:1). In order to address this topic, he started in the first verse by asking them to think of the gospel as he first preached it to them when he established the Corinthian church. He reminded them that they received the gospel, the message of God’s grace through Christ, and they are being saved by the gospel that he preaches.

    When Paul writes about salvation, he uses past, present, and future tenses. Those in Christ have been saved (Ephesians 2:8), meaning that our sins are forgiven and our place in eternity is secure. We are being saved (1 Corinthians 15:2); God is presently sanctifying us to be like Christ. We will be saved (Romans 10:9–10) when the time comes for us to stand before God in eternity, and we are free from all sin.

    For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures (1 Corinthians 15:3–4).

    Paul rehearsed to the Corinthians the core beliefs that they had received and believed about the gospel, which was preached by the apostles and the early church. This section provides us with the clearest, earliest summary (approximated AD 53) of the apostolic gospel, which Paul describes as “of first importance.”1

    Paul explained why it was important for the Corinthians to understand and believe his teaching about the resurrection. He insisted that the resurrection was central to the message of the gospel. Why was it so important?

    Paul summed up the gospel as having two main concerns: the death and the resurrection of Christ. These both took place “in accordance with the Scriptures.” Paul repeated this phrase to emphasize the importance of the scriptural witness and of the resurrection. Nothing was more fundamental or more important in Paul’s understanding of the gospel than these teachings.2

    He spoke first of Christ’s death, stating, “Christ died for our sins.” His death on behalf of believers brought reconciliation to God and eternal salvation to all who would receive Him and believe on His name (John 1:12). When Paul said that Christ’s death was according to the Scriptures, he likely had in mind Isaiah’s prediction that the son of David would suffer on behalf of the people of God (Isaiah 53:1–12).

    Paul then referred to the resurrection, recounting that Christ was buried, but “he was raised on the third day.” Paul didn’t teach that Christ raised Himself, but rather that God the Father raised Him from the dead.3 Elsewhere, he wrote, “Paul, an apostle—not from men nor through man, but through Jesus Christ and God the Father, who raised him from the dead” (Galatians 1:1).

    And that he appeared to Cephas, then to the twelve. Then he appeared to more than five hundred brothers at one time, most of whom are still alive, though some have fallen asleep. Then he appeared to James, then to all the apostles (1 Corinthians 15:5–7).

    Paul stated that three days after Christ’s resurrection, He appeared to Cephas (the Aramaic name for Peter), then to the twelve. After appearing to the disciples, Jesus appeared to over five hundred believers at one time. He then appeared to James, the brother of Jesus, who would become a leader of the church in Jerusalem (Acts 21:18). Lastly, He appeared to “all the apostles.

    Paul made the point that most of these believers were still alive when he was writing this epistle. On this topic, theologian Leon Morris commented, “Paul’s insistence that most of them were still alive shows the confidence with which he could appeal to their testimony. They could be interrogated and the facts elicited.”4 Paul was establishing the historical reliability of Jesus’ death and resurrection, laying the groundwork for his argument for the resurrection of all deceased Christians.5

    Last of all, as to one untimely born, he appeared also to me. For I am the least of the apostles, unworthy to be called an apostle, because I persecuted the church of God (1 Corinthians 15:8–9).

    Paul stated that Christ had appeared to him on the road to Damascus “last of all, as to one untimely born. Various interpretations have been given as to Paul’s wording last of all. Some scholars propose that perhaps he was chronologically the last person to see the resurrected Christ, while others propose that this relates to his statement about himself as “the least of the apostles.

    Viewing the resurrected Savior was one of the qualifications for apostleship (1 Corinthians 9:1). However, Paul’s entrance into apostleship was different from the original twelve disciples because Christ came to him in a miraculous manner after His ascension. As such, Paul saw himself as having been “untimely born.” This wording is only found here in the New Testament and is somewhat difficult to translate. One Bible commentator wrote, “In an effort to express his humility, Paul compared himself to an untimely born child, indicating some measure of inferiority to those who had lived with Jesus during his earthly ministry.”6

    Paul considered himself “the least of the apostles” because he had persecuted the believers and the church before his encounter with Jesus on the road to Damascus. He also didn’t know Jesus in His earthly life and ministry.

    But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace toward me was not in vain. On the contrary, I worked harder than any of them, though it was not I, but the grace of God that is with me (1 Corinthians 15:10).

    Paul went on to defend his authority by pointing to God’s choice of him, despite his background. Given his history of persecuting the church, he had no doubts that he had been called as Christ’s apostle only “by the grace of God.” He considered his conversion and apostleship to be a wholly undeserved gift of God (Ephesians 3:7–8). Elsewhere Paul taught that the Christian life begins by grace and continues through God’s grace received by faith. As one author wrote,

    By the grace of God emphasizes Paul’s sense of the awesome generosity of all God’s dealings with him though he is totally undeserving. This grace, however, was not wasted on Paul but became effectual to energize his labors and sufferings beyond the other apostles (2 Corinthians 11:22–29).7

    The gift of God’s grace that Paul received led him to “work harder than any of them,” and his reliance on God made him one of the most effective apostles.

    Whether then it was I or they, so we preach and so you believed (1 Corinthians 15:11).

    Paul reiterated his earlier point to the Corinthians that there is one gospel that he received and passed on to them: that Christ died for our sins, was buried, and was resurrected (1 Corinthians 15:3–4). The Corinthians must believe in the resurrection of Christ, which is central to the gospel. All the apostles continued to preach this message, and the Corinthians at one time had believed it when they became Christians.

    Now if Christ is proclaimed as raised from the dead, how can some of you say that there is no resurrection of the dead? But if there is no resurrection of the dead, then not even Christ has been raised (1 Corinthians 15:12–13).

    Paul went on to make an argument for the future resurrection of the believers based on Christ’s resurrection from the dead. He began by challenging those who were in denial of the resurrection of the dead: If Christ was raised from the dead, and the Corinthians had believed it, how could they deny the resurrection of the dead?

    It is not clear exactly what those among the Corinthians who doubted the resurrection of the dead believed would happen to Christians after death. Perhaps they believed that all the benefits of faith in Christ were experienced in this life and then the soul simply ceased to exist. Many in the Greco-Roman era believed that death was the end, with no afterlife to follow. Others believed the death of the body released a person to a purely spiritual existence.

    Whether the Corinthians had been influenced by false teaching or were mixing Christian truth with local cultural beliefs, Paul proceeded to use logic to correct their thinking, first by making a direct connection between Christ’s resurrection from the dead and the future resurrection of Christians. One Bible scholar explained this as follows:

    As far as Paul was concerned, any argument that opposed the bodily resurrection denied Christ’s bodily resurrection. Because believers’ eternal resurrection and Jesus’ are of the same type, one cannot be possible and the other impossible. If people cannot be resurrected bodily, then Jesus was not resurrected. The fact of Christ’s resurrection invalidated any philosophical objection to the possibility of resurrection.8

    Paul’s conclusion that if there is no bodily resurrection of the dead, then Christ himself could not have been raised from the dead makes the point that Christians must believe in the resurrection of the dead. The Corinthians’ denial of the resurrection of the believers ultimately denied Christ’s resurrection, even if they claimed to believe that Jesus was resurrected.

    And if Christ has not been raised, then our preaching is in vain and your faith is in vain. We are even found to be misrepresenting God, because we testified about God that he raised Christ, whom he did not raise if it is true that the dead are not raised (1 Corinthians 15:14–15).

    Paul proceeds again to use logic to outline the consequences of the Corinthians’ thinking: If there was no bodily resurrection, then the apostles’ preaching—and thereby the faith of the Corinthians—would be in vain, or as the NIV translation puts it, “useless.” This in turn would render the apostles’ testimony false, making them guilty of teaching a lie and “misrepresenting God” by testifying falsely about Him. The implication of denying the bodily resurrection is that Christianity would be a senseless religion and the believers’ faith would be in vain.

    For if the dead are not raised, not even Christ has been raised. And if Christ has not been raised, your faith is futile and you are still in your sins. Then those also who have fallen asleep in Christ have perished. If in Christ we have hope in this life only, we are of all people most to be pitied (1 Corinthians 15:16–19).

    Paul felt compelled to reiterate for the fourth time in this chapter that if the dead cannot be raised, then Christ has not been raised. In such a case, the Corinthians’ faith would be “futile,” similar to his earlier assertion that it would be “in vain.” In this case, however, not only would there be no benefit to their faith, but they would still be in their sins, and such believers would be “of all people most to be pitied.” Christ’s resurrection from the dead was the proof that His death was the substitutionary sacrifice for sin, which is why Paul referenced Jesus’ death for our sins and His resurrection as of “first importance” (1 Corinthians 15:3–4).

    “If Christ has not been raised,” then His death did not pay for our sins, and “if we have hope in this life only,” we have no hope of eternal life with God in heaven. The implications of such a belief would be that Christians who had already died would not receive Jesus’ promise of eternal life: “I give them eternal life, and they will never perish” (John 10:28). Thus we see how central the resurrection is to the gospel message. “Christ’s resurrection, grounded in the truth of eyewitness testimony (1 Corinthians 15:4–8), changes everything.”9

    (To be continued.)


    1 Alan F. Johnson, 1 Corinthians, The IVP New Testament Commentary Series (IVP Academic, 2004), 284.

    2 Richard L. Pratt, Holman New Testament Commentary—1 & 2 Corinthians. Vol. 7 (B&H Publishing Group, 2000).

    3 Pratt, Holman New Testament Commentary—1 & 2 Corinthians.

    4 Leon Morris, 1 Corinthians: An Introduction and Commentary, Vol. 7, Tyndale New Testament Commentaries (InterVarsity Press, 1985), 180.

    5 Crossway, ESV Study Bible (Crossway Bibles, 2008).

    6 Pratt, Holman New Testament Commentary—1 & 2 Corinthians.

    7 Johnson, 1 Corinthians, 287.

    8 Pratt, Holman New Testament Commentary—1 & 2 Corinthians.

    9 Crossway, ESV Study Bible (Crossway Bibles, 2008).

     

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