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  • Love for the Lost

    By Maria Fontaine

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    The Savior’s love for the lost is so vast that words simply cannot do it justice. It has been the theme of songs, poems, tributes, and heartfelt expressions beginning with the prophecies in the Old Testament about Jesus and how He would take upon Himself the weight of our transgressions and would give His life for us as the sacrificial lamb (Isaiah 53:4–7).

    Jesus has so much love for every single person. He loves the ones who don’t yet know Him, and He gave His life for every single person. He wants them to know Him and His love, and He wants them to receive His gift of eternal salvation (John 10:27–28). He wants to use their circumstances to work in their lives and to draw them to Him.

    Just as He called out to Peter and Andrew, two of His first disciples who were fishermen, to follow Him and He would make them “fishers of men” (Matthew 4:18–19), He calls everyone who believes in Him to in turn bring others into His kingdom. His final words to His disciples before His ascension were to go into all the world to proclaim the gospel and to make disciples of all nations (Mark 16:15; Matthew 28:19).

    It all starts with us. We are called to be Jesus’ hands and feet and eyes and mouth to communicate His love and truth to others. We are called to be the “Bible in shoe leather” that the world “reads.” Our mission is to reach people in every walk of life, so that they may come to know Jesus and He may be the truly great love of their life, who alone can satisfy that deepest yearning of every human soul for love, truth, understanding, purpose, and meaning.

    Jesus Himself said that He is “the way, the truth, and the life” and that “no one comes to the Father but by Me” (John 14:6). The love of God is perfectly pictured in Jesus, who shared His love with everybody, even the poorest people, and the outcasts of society, the oppressed, and the seemingly greatest sinners.

    To be effective in sharing our faith with others, we have to reflect the love that God has for every single person—no matter who they are or what their current situation is in life. We have to be willing to reach out to them and manifest God’s love for them, just as Jesus did. That will mean different things in each situation, but what it comes down to is not letting anything stand between the Lord’s love and someone who is in need of Him—whether it’s our pride, our lack of self-confidence, our reputation, or our busy lives.

    The Apostle Paul wrote, “Christ’s love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died. And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again” (2 Corinthians 5:14–15). That’s a perspective about as far removed from living for self as any two concepts could ever be, and it’s overwhelming to think about fulfilling that commission. It’s grand, magnificent, superhuman—probably far beyond anything that we feel capable of.

    It is a daunting prospect to be compelled by Christ’s love to live for Him and for others, and one that we doubtless feel we fall short in at times, when we think about the extent of our love for those who don’t know Jesus or don’t seem open to hearing about Him. I know that I fall far short, and I imagine that you probably feel the same way. But we all need to have faith that it is God who works in us with His love to motivate us to share Jesus’ truths with others (Philippians 2:13).

    How do you measure love for those who don’t yet know the Lord? Is it manifested in tears and weeping for them? Is it manifested with feelings of compassion and tenderness? Is it manifested with a burning desire to find people searching for the Lord’s answers and comfort? These are all manifestations, but they’re not the only ones.

    In the course of sharing the gospel with others, there may be times of sheer joy when someone makes the choice to receive the Lord. Perhaps you have prayed for a long time for someone to become a Christian, or in other cases, you are filled with joy when you see the visible fruit of your witness. But these will likely not be everyday occurrences, and they can even be quite rare.

    If you wait for a tangible feeling of love for people, or passion to share the good news with them and to talk to them about Jesus, you could miss opportunities to reach those who need Jesus. Love is not simply an emotion. Let’s talk a little bit about what love really is.

    The word agape, the most commonly used word for love in the New Testament in Greek, refers to love for God and love that chooses to put the needs of others before self. This kind of self-giving love goes beyond feelings and accepts being inconvenienced and voluntarily suffers for the benefit of someone else. It is the sacrificial love that Jesus manifested and that we are called to imitate. The love that Jesus had for us motivated Him to come to earth and live among us and die for us so that we could have salvation forever.

    Love is what motivated the great missionaries of the past to leave their comfortable homes, and sometimes even their loved ones and families, to answer the Lord’s call in their heart to tell others about Him. From their published journals and letters, it is clear that many of them struggled as they endured circumstances of hardship to reach people in distant lands who had never heard the good news. But they were called by the Lord, and they answered His call in spite of the many sacrifices it entailed.

    We often look to the great men and women of history as examples, and when we read about the fruit of their labors—the souls brought to the kingdom in their lifetime, the missions they founded, the poor and oppressed people they helped, or the sacrifices they made—we are moved and inspired. Some of them made beautiful statements later in their life and ministry that showed their deep and compelling love for the people that the Lord had sent them to reach.

    But I would venture to say from some of the things they said or wrote that some of them didn’t feel that compelling love in an overflowing way right from the beginning. They had a great calling from the Lord, and they obviously had a great love because they obeyed. That is the proof of their love for Jesus and others. The quotes from their writings that extol the love and passion in their heart are beautiful, but we know by their writings that they didn’t feel that way every day, just as we don’t. Their love for Jesus compelled them to do what He called them to do.

    The proof of their love for Jesus and others was in their obedience. They answered the Lord’s call, despite whatever hardship it meant for them personally. They endured the difficulties, they steeled themselves to not quit or give up prematurely, and ultimately found joy and fulfillment in their labors.

    We often think of David Livingstone’s famous declaration of faith, “I have never made a sacrifice!” We know that he actually made enormous sacrifices. I’m sure there were times when he was heartbroken, overwhelmed, discouraged, and felt the weight of the sacrifices he was making. But when he made that statement, he was envisioning the rewards, the blessings, the souls rescued for God’s kingdom, as well as the sacrifices Jesus made for us, which dwarf ours by comparison.

    He knew that in light of all that, the physical and emotional hardships could not be considered sacrifices, echoing the Apostle Paul’s words, “I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us” (Romans 8:18). And when we look back at the preponderance of our lives, the things we have endured or sacrificed for Jesus compared to what He has done for us, we can express the same feeling with conviction.

    May we each continue to be faithful to live out our love for the Lord and the lost each day, reaching out to the people the Lord places in our path, sharing the good news of salvation in Jesus, and providing a living example of His love.

    Originally published November 2010. Adapted and republished November 2026. Read by Lenore Welsh.

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  • The Life of Discipleship, Part 12: Everyday Discipleship

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    Discipleship is a lifelong journey that requires perseverance, determination, conviction, the love of God, and the empowerment of the Holy Spirit. The late Reverend Billy Graham once said, “The Christian’s journey through life isn’t a sprint but a marathon. … Discipleship is the commitment of a lifetime, day by day.” The process of growing in our discipleship and being transformed into Christ’s image is a lifelong task. As one person expressed it:

    We are created as rough drafts that must go through the editing process. God works to transform us step by step into a finished article that will make worthwhile reading. Our substance is reshaped repeatedly by the choices and decisions we make, the superficial and superfluous bits are purged through life’s trials, and we are fine-tuned and polished … in the hands of the Great Editor.—Scott Montrose1

    Our discipleship is meant to encompass every aspect of our lives, including our relationship with God and our daily walk with Him, and our love for others, which includes every person we encounter in our day. Our discipleship includes being an ambassador for Christ, sharing the good news with the people He places in our path, as well as being a living reflection of the love of Christ in every sphere of our lives and striving to grow in His likeness.

    We live our discipleship in our homes, the workplace, in schools, and in the community. We incorporate discipleship principles into our parenting, our relationships, and the investment of our time, skills, and resources. We strive to be a living example of our faith to our families, friends, and neighbors, and the people we interact with throughout our day and in our online communications.

    The call to be a disciple of Jesus is a call to a whole way of life. It’s a call to rearrange our priorities so that God has first place in our lives. This doesn’t mean that we won’t have other priorities in life, but our allegiance is to God first—above our own desires and will, our loved ones, our possessions, and even our own lives. Christian discipleship is not easy to live out—in fact, Jesus said “the way is hard,” but it is the path “that leads to life” (Matthew 7:13–14). It requires commitment, dedication, and placing God at the center of our lives, our decisions, and our relationships.

    In the Gospels, Jesus challenged His followers to lay down their lives for His sake and to follow Him. In Matthew’s Gospel, He said, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it” (Matthew 16:24–25).

    Denying ourselves can be understood to mean setting aside our personal desires, ambitions, and goals, and choosing to seek God for His direction in our lives and pursue His will over our own. This doesn’t mean that the Lord will never lead us to work toward our personal ambitions and goals. If we are seeking God’s will and our desire is to please Him, it’s very likely that His will and our desires will be in alignment (Psalm 37:4). However, if God’s direction doesn’t align with the direction we were leaning toward, as His disciples, we will be willing to “deny ourselves” in order to follow Him.

    Jesus gave us the key to being able to live our commitment to discipleship, starting with our spiritual rebirth through salvation. “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come. I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me” (2 Corinthians 5:17; Galatians 2:20).

    The ability and grace to live the discipleship life come not only from our desire to obey God’s commandments and our efforts to live in a godly way, but from the power of God through “Christ in us” (Colossians 1:27) and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit (John 14:15–17). “For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them” (Ephesians 2:10).

    Christ in Us

    Every new morning we can anticipate that the Lord Jesus Christ will express Himself through us that day and accomplish some aspect of His work, whether we can identify what He has done or not. This is our privilege, and this is our responsibility.

    For Christ to be in us gives us power. We can live effectively in no other strength than that which derives from the life of Jesus Christ, for He said, “Apart from me you can do nothing” (John 15:5). And for us to be in Christ gives us purpose. It is not a power that enables us to live for ourselves, but it equips us to fulfill the plans of Christ...

    For Christ to be in us gives us resources. Everything we possibly need is ours in the Lord Jesus Christ. And for us to be in Christ gives us responsibilities. As part of His body, the most important issue I have to face is, “What [does He] want me to do?”

    For Christ to be in us is dynamic. And for us to be in Christ is demanding. If He has something to do, He has the right to use us as the means of doing it. If there is an “Ethiopian eunuch” on the desert road, He has the right to tell you to leave your Samaria and go to meet him (Acts 8:26–40). But for every demand He makes, He provides the dynamic of His Spirit within to accomplish it.

    This is the Christian life. Having faced our failure to express His likeness and image in the world, we come to the Cross for forgiveness, are indwelt by the Holy Spirit, and become incorporated into Christ, to become vehicles for the expression of His life and purpose. The world desperately needs to know this but will have no grounds on which to believe it until they see the life and character of Jesus Christ lived out in your life and mine. This is God's purpose for you!—Charles Price2

    Joining His Kingdom Mission

    God has invited you to join him in changing the world. God has a dream for this world that Jesus called the kingdom of God. God created you to play an important role in his kingdom vision. You will never find your deepest purpose in life until you find your place in building God’s kingdom.

    You don’t have to be brilliant to change the world—or wealthy or influential or a spiritual giant. But you do have to say yes to the invitation. You do have to be available and willing to be used, and you may have to pay the price that comes with following Jesus, because changing the world and following Jesus isn’t easy, and it doesn’t come cheap. There will be some sacrifice involved—there always is.

    Our Christian faith is not just a way to find forgiveness for sin in order to enter eternal life, yet it is that. It is not just a system of right beliefs about ultimate truth and the order of things, though it is that. Nor is it just a way to find God’s comfort in times of trouble or a helpful code of conduct for how to live a good and productive life, though it is those things too. Fundamentally, the Christian faith is a call to … follow our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, and join in the great mission of Christ in our world. … Only then will we become completed people—people living according to God’s deepest purpose for our lives.—Richard Stearns3

    Conclusion: The Blueprint for Life

    As we have seen throughout this series on discipleship, the Bible teaches us about the relationship God wishes to have with us and how to live in a manner that is pleasing to Him. Growing in Christlikeness and being transformed into His likeness is the foundation for living a godly and fruitful life in harmony with God and others, which produces the fruit of His Spirit in our lives and those of others (Galatians 5:22–23). It is within the Bible that we learn truths revealed by God that we can pattern our lives after.

    In God’s Word, we find the biblical principles that serve as the compass for our lives and help us to navigate the challenges of everyday life and to be an effective witness for Christ. His Word conveys principles that guide us in our interaction with others and our decision-making, helping us to discern the difference between right and wrong. These spiritual principles set the tone for our moral standard, our ethics, our attitudes about life, love, the world, the environment, and relationships. Though the Bible doesn’t specifically deal with every possible situation that we may face, it does provide the principles needed to navigate the complexities of life in a manner that is pleasing to God.

    His Word teaches us to live out our discipleship by loving and serving others. Our love for Jesus moves us to serve others on His behalf. It motivates us to be His ambassadors in whatever situation we find ourselves. It compels us to assist those in need, and to provide hope and healing to those who have none. We can be His hands to help and touch, His mouth to speak the truth of His Word and give encouragement and hope, His eyes to convey compassion, His feet to walk alongside a weary soul, and His arms to help carry their heavy burden. In so doing, our lives will glorify Him and bless others, as the following articles highlight.

    A Beautiful Life

    When the life of a follower of Jesus is lived as Jesus intended it to be, it becomes a thing of beauty. Being a Christian and having a relationship with God should be something that permeates our daily experiences, is integrated into our decisions, and brings color to our perceptions of ourselves, others, and this life. The countless expressions of God’s love shared with others in the course of a Christian’s life may at times appear to be insignificant in themselves, yet God sees them in the context of the totality of a life that glorifies Him, and He revels in their beauty.

    The more we are determined to strengthen our walk with Jesus, and the more we desire a deeper spiritual connection with Him, the more He will be able to manifest His Spirit through us. We are His handiwork. As we allow Him to blend the hues of His love and mercy and develop the beauty of form that He intended for us, we become His masterpiece that will speak to the hearts of many. Let’s eagerly embrace the priceless gift of His presence in our lives. And as we cultivate the captivating beauty of God’s love in all we do and say, others will be drawn to Him through us.—Maria Fontaine

    Christ’s Fragrance

    The Apostle Paul wrote that the Church is a fragrance of Christ to the world: “For we are the aroma of Christ to God among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing” (2 Corinthians 2:15). By this he meant that every believer, and every congregation of believers, establishes a presence of Christ in the world which is palpable to nonbelievers. …

    But what is that fragrance? How should we expect others to experience the presence of Jesus in us? In two ways, primarily: the truth of the Gospel and the love of Jesus Christ. God's truth speaks to every aspect of human life. By His Word of truth, in the hands of His Spirit, Christ is making all things new in our lives (Revelation 21:5). This means that, in every area of our lives—all our relationships, roles, and responsibilities—Christians exhibit a newness which conforms not to the spirit of the world but to the Holy Spirit of Christ. Our conversation will be different—not filled with carping and complaining, triteness and frivolity, criticism and mean-spiritedness; instead, our words will always be gracious and edifying, respectful of the people with whom we converse (Colossians 4:6; Ephesians 4:29).

    So also with the ways we do our work, raise our children, participate in the culture of our day, and conduct ourselves with dignity and grace. We are new creatures in Jesus Christ, and, therefore, in many ways, out of step with the surrounding culture. But by living the truth in every aspect of our lives we shine the light of Jesus and exude the fragrance of His worldview into every nook and cranny of our lives.

    Believers need to work hard at being the fragrance of Jesus. By steeping ourselves in God's Word and living in an attitude of prayer … we can begin to waft the fragrant smell of King Jesus into more of the everyday aspects and areas of our lives. Let us resolve to be that fragrance of truth and love, and we will find that the wind of God's Spirit will accompany us everywhere we go, sending the aroma of Jesus to all and everyone, as well as to God.—T. M. Moore4

    Jesus has entrusted us with the responsibility of passing on His personal, unconditional, all-encompassing love to our fellow men and women, to those who share the planet with us today. The commission He has given to His disciples is to take the gospel to all the world. Wherever the Lord has called you to is your mission field, and you are called to serve and reach the people He places in your path. Every one of us has some opportunity, some network, some realm in which we can be sharing His love and truth with others, strengthening people’s faith, hope, and hearts.

    May the Lord bless your discipleship and service to Him and witness to others so that you can be the salt of the earth and the light of the world He has called us to be (Matthew 5:13–14). Jesus said, “Let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven” (Matthew 5:16). In so doing, we will be living a life of discipleship that glorifies God (1 Corinthians 10:31).

    Thoughts to Ponder

    Discipleship isn’t a program or an event; it’s a way of life. It’s not for a limited time, but for our whole life. Discipleship … is for all believers for every day of their life.—Bill Hull

    Every believer who takes seriously their vocation as a disciple of Jesus will see themselves as a “sent one” wherever they find themselves, and will look to be mobilized into action in that place. This could take the form of being a “good witness” at work or a good neighbor to those who live nearby, or it could involve volunteering.—Michael Frost and Alan Hirsch

    Don’t allow the words of Jesus to only stay printed in your Bible. Give them wings, springing them into action. There are souls in your life who need your nurture. Consider how you might show concern for their welfare, loving and caring for them the way you already love and care for yourself. When you do, you’ll be completing the chain of love that began when God first loved you.—Karen Ehman

    What the Bible Says

    “Whoever abides in Me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing. By this My Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit; so you will be My disciples” (John 15:4–5; John 15:8 NKJV).

    “Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving” (Colossians 2:6–7).

    “But you, dear friends, by building yourselves up in your most holy faith and praying in the Holy Spirit, keep yourselves in God’s love as you wait for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ to bring you to eternal life” (Jude 1:20–21 NIV).

    A Prayer for Everyday Discipleship

    Heavenly Father, thank you for saving me, calling me, and giving me purpose. You are so good, and your grace is sufficient for me. I ask that you cleanse my heart from sin and clear my mind of the distractions that attempt to draw me away from fellowship with you today. Help me abide in Christ, to learn from Him and lean on Him, so I can live for Him and lead others to Him. You are worthy of all of my devotion and praise. Make me a faithful and fruitful disciple who brings you glory every day. In the mighty and matchless name of Christ, my King, I pray, Amen.5


    1 Scott Montrose, “Life’s Editing,” Activated, January 2021, https://activated.org/en/life/the-whole-you/personal-growth/lifes-editing/

    2 Charles Price, Christ for Real: How to Grow into Christ’s Likeness (Kregel Publications, 2011).

    3 Richard Stearns, Unfinished: Believing Is Only the Beginning (Thomas Nelson, 2013).

    4 T. M. Moore, “The Fragrance of Truth and Love,” January 29, 2010.

    5 Annie McGuire, “What is a disciple of Christ?” Daily His Disciple, January 11, 2022, https://dailyhisdisciple.com/2022/01/11/what-is-a-disciple-of-christ/.

     

  • May 19 The Life of Discipleship, Part 11: Sharing Our Resources
  • Apr 28 The Life of Discipleship, Part 10: Our Work Life
  • Mar 17 The Life of Discipleship, Part 9: Discipling Others
  • Mar 3 1 Corinthians: Chapter 15 (verses 37–58)
  • Feb 17 The Life of Discipleship, Part 8: Sharing Our Faith
  • Feb 3 1 Corinthians: Chapter 15 (verses 20–36)
  • Jan 20 The Life of Discipleship, Part 7: Serving God by Serving Others
  • Dec 16 1 Corinthians: Chapter 15 (verses 1–19)
  • Dec 2 The Life of Discipleship, Part 6: Love for Others
   

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